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effalunt Posts: 333 Joined: 2002/10/17	2003/04/21, 11:52 AM Some of you may remember "water fountain boy" from previous posts. Well, he and I have been together 3 months now, and I'm crazy about him, but he's holding me back. I've heard that gym guys (he's a serious powerlifter) can be cold fish. I see him daily at the gym, and usually once a week otherwise, but he doesn't hold my hand or cuddle me at all unless he wants to make out. If I'm kissing him, I've got his whole attention, otherwise, he treats me like you'd treat a cousin or something. It seems like he can attempt only one thing at a time. If we watch a movie, we WATCH the movie. The boy can't multi-task! I guess I'm just having a hard time figuring him out. Any advice? I really like this guy, and we have so much in common, but I need a little help with this. Thanks. -------------- Think you can or think you can't; either way you're right--Goethe
7707mutt Posts: 7,686 Joined: 2002/06/18	2003/04/21, 01:39 PM Try talking to him about it? Does he see you as a friend or as a serious girlfriend? As for the movine i still after 6 years with my wife just want to Watch the movie! LOL I was wondereing what was going on with him and you. -------------- IF YOU CAN STILL ITCH YOUR NOSE AFTER ARM DAY, GO DO ANOTHER SET!!!
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/04/21, 01:41 PM Hi effalunt:) Have you talked to him about this? Is he aware that you feel this way? I would like to just give you good advice, but I don't think it would be very accurate unless I know what he thinks of the whole deal. I hope all goes well with you.
7707mutt Posts: 7,686 Joined: 2002/06/18	2003/04/21, 02:07 PM yup -------------- IF YOU CAN STILL ITCH YOUR NOSE AFTER ARM DAY, GO DO ANOTHER SET!!!
Ravenbeauty Posts: 3,755 Joined: 2002/09/24	2003/04/21, 03:30 PM hey effaulent, welcome back and glad to see you on again. you have done an awesome job! way to go! hope to see you on here more often again than not. good luck! -------------- Bettia.... When you feel like giving up, take it to the limit one more time!! You will SUCEED :-)
Carivan Posts: 8,542 Joined: 2002/01/20	2003/04/21, 09:33 PM Did you ever think that he highly respects you? Might be a good sign, but for you to ask him. For the movie, I would just watch the movie, unless it was a porn (but who needs a porn). Just my thoughts! Btw, I read your other post about the old BF. Nice job! And keep up the good work. -------------- We must become the change we want to see. Ivan Montreal Canada
effalunt Posts: 333 Joined: 2002/10/17	2003/04/22, 02:10 AM I like to watch the movie, but it would be nice if the guy would hold my hand during the movie. He's a very shy person, actually, and it's kinda hard to get him to open up. I think that may be part of it. We do, however, have fantastic chemistry when he does decide to kiss me! He is (slowly slowly) starting to show me more affection. I think maybe that a burn in his past makes him hesitant to get heavily involved. I'm just being patient...Thanks for the replies! -------------- Think you can or think you can't; either way you're right--Goethe