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goodguy
goodguy
Posts: 54
Joined: 2002/02/09
Canada
2003/06/23, 09:46 AM
first of all hi everyone.i was absent in forum for such long time.
heres the topic.did anyone in here pick up any chic in gym,or at least tried.if anyone have some techincs share wit us.
i met asian girl,she was switching the 35 pounds plate,i helped her to put it in proper spot,cuz its hell of a weight.started little conversation,sayin, oh ur so strong...is this ur first wotk out....etc,then i went on for fone #,she gave it 2 me.everything else is different story.
so what i want is u ppl share wit us some ideas.and you ladies ,what approach would be the best in the gym?
azredhead57
azredhead57
Posts: 1,651
Joined: 2003/04/11
United States
2003/06/23, 03:10 PM
Personally I think most women in the gym are not there to be hit on. It is annoying and distracting to your workouts. Now if they are just hanging around the door in a cute little pink outfit and not lifting anything heavier than a bottle of water....ask away.

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tarab21
tarab21
Posts: 508
Joined: 2003/03/31
United States
2003/06/23, 03:39 PM
grrr i hate being hit on at the gym...i agree, it is just plain annoying. i don't even like being looked at when i'm all sweaty and red and veiny...
Carivan
Carivan
Posts: 8,542
Joined: 2002/01/20
Canada
2003/06/23, 04:35 PM
Nice honest answers...I like that!

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JessicaR
JessicaR
Posts: 467
Joined: 2002/08/12
United States
2003/06/24, 10:27 AM
I agree, I go to the gym to work out, I only have a limited amount of time so every second is important to me. The only exception would be to help a newcomer; I know a lot of women aren't comfortable in the freeweight section, I still feel intimidated there sometimes and if I can help another woman get comfortable working out there I'd be happy to do that. Safety in numbers, LOL. Anyway, I'm married.

One of the trainers at our gym actually came to introduce himself and try to sell me training sessions while I was in the middle of my set on the weighted ab machine. Need I say that is an obvious faux pas?
drio
drio
Posts: 288
Joined: 2003/04/22
United States
2003/06/24, 11:50 AM
Ok we're getting off topic.. but it wasn't a real great topic anyhow.. so I don't feel bad. I had a trainer ask to give me a survey while I was on the TREDMILL! Running my butt off this guy starts asking me questions.... with the intention of getting me to join special training sessions. YOU'D THINK they'd know better.. huh?

Ok, my opinion on "goodguy"'s question. Unless the young lady is obviously flirting with you, or really not there to work out, I would not recommend whipping out that charm of yours. Let's face it, there are some women out there that try to meet men at the gym, but I'd say 98% of them REALLY aren't interested in being hit on. My girlfriend almost beat the crap out of this guy hitting on her in the gym last week. =) (and she could too! Gulp!)

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nerraw
nerraw
Posts: 236
Joined: 2003/03/09
United States
2003/07/01, 12:11 PM
Back down...the gym is not a night club. We go there to train. If you go there for a pick-up...look at your feet, pick them up and hoof it, alternatly pick up the weights and get cracking...your new bod will attract the right attention next time your are in a club.
cheers.
I_Am-aZon
I_Am-aZon
Posts: 893
Joined: 2003/02/18
Canada
2003/07/07, 02:38 PM
LOL@ az: Pink oufit and a heavy water bottle! Too funny! How about the ladies that marinate in perfume before the gym? Like get real girls!

I only talk with the regulars as the newbies "lookin for somethin" tend not to last anyhow... also, if this helps, I have found that wearing headphones tends to help give those specific people the cold shoulder without being rude - there doesn't have to be music playing, they will just assume it is on!