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2003/06/29, 01:12 PM
Ok im 23/m and me and my g/f were togther for 1 1/2 years 5 days ago she said i need a break i need time i was heart broken....she broke up with me...its killed me..shesaid dont call ill call u soon...(whats soon)aslo she go t mad i think cause she told me she was going to her friends house and called me before she got there ....i tried getting in touch with her 100 times while she was there...then finally aftter the night she picked her phone up screaming why u call so much i said i was worried
ok well she doesnt know i asked her friend if she was there and her friend said i havent talked to jess in days....iw as like what the hell she lied to me...i asked my g/f she said iw as with my frind.....so idk soon afetr she broke up and said she needs time...i wantr her back what can i do????
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2003/06/29, 02:01 PM
bro,,,wake up ,,,,,when a girl says i need some time that is what she wants.............I'll give you a story....my best friend was going out with this guy for 3 years....after being with him for so long (3 years is nothing, I've been 11 years with my boyfriend) she was not sure if she still loved him...so she asked him to give her some space...well he didn't.....he did what you are doing...and she started doing what your ex is doing and saying.......what he did was puch her into the arms of another man.........leave her be....give her the space that she is asking for.........and give your mind to really see the true picture,,,,try to stop thinking with your heart.....and then you might see the true picture,,,,good luck......your still young, when it is true you will not hurt everything will be perfect........ ;D....love is not forced or disappointing it is a feeling of complete..........^^
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2003/06/30, 08:09 AM
Padua has pretty much summed it up. When they say they need space, you have to give it to them. My girlfriend actually just broke up with me a few weeks ago, but I've been through this before and know that the best thing to do is leave her alone and set out on your own. Prepare yourself for the possibility that she's not coming back, and don't wait around for her.....be single again. It's hard at first, but hopefully you'll see how exciting it can be to be young and unattached, as I have. You've been in a relationship for a long time, so now you get to try some new things as a single person. I know it hurts, but let her go for now..........if she comes back, be cautious, cuz this could all happen again. Women have an amazing ability to instantly flake out on you. Good luck, and ease yourself back into the single life; it can be a hell of a time.
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2003/06/30, 11:31 AM
I can't add anything that Padua or Mzakal haven't already said...I just wanted to say that I agree with them completely.
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~Jennifer
http://www.gwindalyn.com
If you dont stand for something, you will fall for anything.
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2003/06/30, 09:53 PM
I agree also with the above posts, I know your saying "but you don't know how it is".
This just gives you a chance and sit back, talk with your buddies, do some reflecting. If you get back together than it was meant to be. If not, there are other's, and mark this as a bad adventure.
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You can walk to anywhere you want, it only takes time.
Ivan Montreal Canada (aka SpongeBob Square Pants to some!)
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