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arondaballer Posts: 1,054 Joined: 2003/06/14	2003/07/11, 10:23 AM Hey, this is a question for the women.... what is the thing you look at most for a first impression of a guy? Just curious -------------- If Satan ever tries to remind you of your past, just tell him of his future!
azredhead57 Posts: 1,651 Joined: 2003/04/11	2003/07/14, 04:51 PM Are you talking about a physical characteristic? Eyes and arms might get my attention, but personality is what keeps it. I love a man that makes me laugh! -------------- ~Victoria~ ...There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.--Beverly Sills
lbarnes Posts: 6 Joined: 2003/08/03	2003/08/06, 05:43 PM The first thing I notice about a man is his smile, I love a man with pearly whites! But then seriously, I look at everything from head to toe. What matters most is his personality. I need someone I can talk to. As for looks I usually just know if he is my type or not right away. For me he should be tall, dark hair, and handsome...Adrian Paul the Highlander is my hero!! LOL Just take care of yourself. If you are a happy, healthy, friendly person you will do just fine!
Tilly1981 Posts: 5 Joined: 2003/08/08	2003/08/08, 04:00 PM i want someone who is approachable at first, They must be able to get me o notice them, i.e, they must be confidant, but concieted. After that, I would say to keep me there, and interested, definately the personality. Its ALL different for different people. that includes personality, so if you are looking for the girl to have a one nighter with, she will have to be physically attracted and shallow. lol.jk about the shallow part. but if you are looking for the ONE....well, i don't think you are bc you said chick(s) being plural. but in case you were, yea, personality are key things in that one. -------------- uh....I think I am supposed to be working out, not sitting at my desk....oops...
gwindalyn Posts: 434 Joined: 2003/01/15	2003/08/09, 02:23 PM Physically: A sparkle in the eyes to tell me they love life. Then their smile. I look at their hands and hair to see how well kept they are. Generally, if they have healthy hair and clean hands/nails, they have enough pride to keep themselves and their things in nice working order. THEN I look at the rest of them. I like shoulders and arms myself. Personality: Humor, honesty, integrity, intelligence. They have to be able to truly listen and communicate. And they have to be sensitive to those around them. -------------- ~Jennifer http://www.gwindalyn.com If you dont stand for something, you will fall for anything.
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/08/11, 08:54 AM I look at overall image. Like how they carry themselves and how they treat other people. (Confidence and respect) Also, I agree with azredhead, a guy that can make me laugh is a real plus.
uknowuluvme Posts: 18 Joined: 2003/10/08	2003/10/30, 05:20 PM Let me tell you something... its not always looks -- i will have interest in ANY guy who has the balls to walk up and talk to me-- CONFIDENCE IS THE KEY!!!
perfect_elise Posts: 63 Joined: 2003/10/07	2003/11/04, 09:00 AM I agree - it's all in the attitude. -------------- ...snow can wait, I forgot my mittens...
azredhead57 Posts: 1,651 Joined: 2003/04/11	2003/11/04, 02:34 PM Ok you two, uknow and perfect, I hope you are watching Average Joe. Those are the comments that got this girl into the strange situation she is in. -------------- ~Victoria~ ...There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.--Beverly Sills
uknowuluvme Posts: 18 Joined: 2003/10/08	2003/11/05, 11:57 AM very true az ...very true!--but half of those guys on average joe wouldnt have the confidence to come up to me either!
rickyshot Posts: 153 Joined: 2003/05/13	2003/11/08, 08:38 PM Although I don't want a troll, looks are towards the bottom of the list for me. Maybe it is my age (49) cause younger people are more concentrated on physical attraction. There should be chemistry there that invisible something, I agree but it is not always based on looks. I like intelligent men, who are not couch potatoes, clean living and don't have crazy ideas about women. A sense of humor is nice and I like hard working people. Physical attributes for me has always been tall (I am short) slender and dark. You can't fit the bill for everyone but there is always someone for you. And sex is easy to find but a real relationship is something else wheter you be a man or woman.
em18 Posts: 13 Joined: 2003/11/13	2003/11/21, 12:40 PM 1. Attitude 2. Personality 3. Charm 4. Brains 5. Looks -------------- You never fail until you stop trying!
perfect_elise Posts: 63 Joined: 2003/10/07	2003/12/10, 04:00 AM lol...what's Average Joe? Now you've made me real curious...what girl?? What situation?? Am I heading for trouble? :D @Azredhead: Thanks for calling me perfect! ;) I mean...I say it to myself constantly, but it sounds better when somebody else says it...lol ;) ============ Quoting from azredhead57: Ok you two, uknow and perfect, I hope you are watching Average Joe. Those are the comments that got this girl into the strange situation she is in. ============= -------------- ...snow can wait, I forgot my mittens...
laneylou Posts: 277 Joined: 2003/10/21	2003/12/10, 12:57 PM 1. Smile - perfect straight taken care of teeth. A fetish of mine I guess. lol My sweetie spent years during school in braces, head gear, etc. But, the first thing I saw in him was that WONDERFUL smile. 2. Hair/Eyes - I donno what it is about dark hair and blue or green eyes but I melt. My sweetie has brown hair and the most awesome kiss-me-green eyes I've ever seen. 3. Heart - If you have a good heart and a caring personality you can get any woman you want in the world. 4. Money - He ABSOLUTELY can not be one of these guys that flaunt how much money they have constantly. I hate that. I went out on a date with a guy and when we were done eating he said pick a color. I picked blue and he said ok Great! We'll pay for dinner with the blue master card that has a 60,000.00 limit on it. The date was pretty much over after that. 5. Pick up lines - Just come up and say Hi My name is.... Worst one a guy ever said to me was Hey baby! This isn't a fat tummy it's a gas tank for a LOOOOOVE MACHINE! I about fell over laughing. The second worst was MAN YOU'RE FAT! Some guy with a bunch of his friends sitting at a table in a bar downtown Indy... just screamed that at me. Which was stupid, I was only a size 16 it's not like I was huge or anything... They all looked at me and went geesh you idiot what are you doing? So I walked over to his table and slowly leaned down with my elbows on the table and said that's too bad you said that because I could have taken care of you (not the exact words but it'll do for now) better than any woman in this bar sweetie. Then I winked at him and left. His friends all cracked up and said See you idiot! Watch what you say to people. Maybe I shouldn't have said that but oh well ... LOL one of my favorite moments in life ... Getting some jerk back!
Jdelts Posts: 1,218 Joined: 2003/10/19	2003/12/10, 09:47 PM I like a guy with huge muscles, long walks through the gym, share a protien shake over a conversation of Mr. Olympia. Uh....did I just say that? people, i'm joking -------------- WISE MAN SAY: ONLY FOOLS DON\'T LIFT
azredhead57 Posts: 1,651 Joined: 2003/04/11	2003/12/18, 12:59 PM Hey perfect....did you find out what average joe is yet? It is a show similar to Bachelor, but they take a beautiful women and give her, I think it was 20 average (some were down right fat) looking men to get to know and date and eliminate down to the last one that she would then take on a trip to HI. The thing was that towards the end of the show they brought in some model types and threw the whole game. In the end she has one joe(who ended up being a millionaire) and one waiter/model who lived with his parents. She went with the pretty boy, go figure. Very disappointing. -------------- ~Victoria~ ...Do not be discouraged; everyone who got where he is, started where he was.--anon ...There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.--Beverly Sills
Jdelts Posts: 1,218 Joined: 2003/10/19	2003/12/19, 02:16 AM bhardy, you're right! Geez, thats the second time. I didn't think people actually read my posts. I'm comfortable enough with my own sexuality that I can joke about things like that, unlike you, you hard, chiseled, stud of a man...DAMN! I can't control it! Thats 3. :-) I think I'll leave it at that for good. Now I gotta go and watch football then bang my woman. -------------- May the lift be with you.
Jdelts Posts: 1,218 Joined: 2003/10/19	2003/12/19, 11:47 PM I haven't checked back with this post since that last post entry. That was all spur of the moment baby, oh yeah! -------------- May the lift be with you.