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lost love...

effalunt
effalunt
Posts: 333
Joined: 2002/10/17
Canada
2003/09/25, 08:02 PM
Years ago I lost touch with a very close guy friend who I was secretly in love with. He's the most wonderful person I've ever met. He moved away when I was 15, and I've recently heard from him again after almost 6 years. He said he can't stop thinking about me and needs to see me, he'll be here in a few weeks! This is crazy. I don't know what's going to happen, but I feel almost like this is my second chance. I didn't tell him how I felt back then but our conversations have picked up like it's only been 5 days since we've seen each other. I repeat, it's crazy. The last time he saw me I was a soft size 14. I'm now swimming in my size 2's while I'm leaning out for my first competition. It'll shock the heck out of him. Problem: he lives 5 hours away. So, members, I need some opinions, do I go for it and see what happens, or do I leave it just at friendship? I can't believe that he's back in my life. He was my everything years ago, and I think maybe this is the person I'm meant to be with. Is it fate? Am I crazy?
stanlee75
stanlee75
Posts: 136
Joined: 2003/08/18
United States
2003/09/25, 08:07 PM
I say go for it effalunt, if it wasn't meant to be, you probably wouldn't have heard from him again. If you don't go for it, it will always be, the one that got away, and you'll always wonder what if.....trust me fate is a very twisted thing. I should know...
Carivan
Carivan
Posts: 8,542
Joined: 2002/01/20
Canada
2003/09/25, 08:12 PM
If it feels right and it fits...go for it!

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\"A will finds a way\"
Ivan Montreal Canada
jefado
jefado
Posts: 443
Joined: 2003/04/03
United States
2003/09/26, 07:49 AM
You're an intelligent individual who appears to know how to handle herself where matters of the mind and heart are concerned - I think you'll follow your own thoughts and make the right choice for you :o)
We're right behind you...Go Girl!
I_Am-aZon
I_Am-aZon
Posts: 893
Joined: 2003/02/18
Canada
2003/09/26, 11:10 AM
I agree with the above comments eff - just let the friendship grow and see what happens :) 5 hours isn't all that far.....:)
rebekah82
rebekah82
Posts: 29
Joined: 2003/09/25
United States
2003/09/26, 12:17 PM
Effalunt....YOU GO GIRL! Opportunities like this don't come along often.
kirby00
kirby00
Posts: 238
Joined: 2002/11/05
United States
2003/09/26, 07:14 PM
Wow! That's so exciting - I agree with the others...just see what happens.

As for fate - that's not my thing. I like to think I have a little more control. But crazy? You may end up acting all crazy and twitterpaited when you see him, but not crazy for having all these ideas roll around in your head right now.

Have fun!!!
Kirby
azredhead57
azredhead57
Posts: 1,651
Joined: 2003/04/11
United States
2003/09/29, 05:56 PM
sounds like a legitimate second chance to me. Just do what you've been doing, get to know each other and see what happens. Good luck.

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...There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.--Beverly Sills
Philia2
Philia2
Posts: 4,078
Joined: 2001/10/19
France
2003/10/14, 02:35 AM
We only live once......
Now updates please!! (o;

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bowers
bowers
Posts: 179
Joined: 2003/04/13
United States
2003/10/14, 03:09 AM
Go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ogun
Ogun
Posts: 559
Joined: 2002/08/11
United States
2003/10/17, 05:18 PM
Always follow your heart :D

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--There are no versions of the truth.--
Jeff Goldblum, Jurassic Park II