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Working out, I'm too tired to cuddle

klw0022
klw0022
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2003/09/27, 10:33 PM
Is it me, or when you work out like 5 times a week and you work a full time job...sex just seems to be the last thing on my mind.
Carivan
Carivan
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2003/09/28, 11:47 AM
Should have an improvement in that dept. MAybe you are overtraining, and with your job it might be too much.

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GOWAR
GOWAR
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2003/09/28, 03:38 PM
maybe your just stressed out and need a breather , and passion in your life. If you lead a busy life and are constantly making decisions and things of that sort why would be odd to not think about sex so much.
drio
drio
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2003/09/28, 09:47 PM
Hmph.. I think most experience an increase in sexual libido actually. But hey people are different. I guess a busy work schedule on top of fitness goals might be a little taxing.

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azredhead57
azredhead57
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2003/09/29, 06:01 PM
Those are all answers from men, and we all know men and women are different. Some days I feel like it, some days I don't. Depends more on what is going on in my life than my workouts. If I have a to-do list that is a mile long (like today), sex will be toward the bottome of the list. If all my chores and errands are done and I have a relaxing evening on my agenda, then sex is more likely to be on the list.

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bdattel
bdattel
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2003/12/26, 02:15 PM
I agree with azredhead57. Men and women are different. Women stress out and than have a hard time relaxing and there goes the sex. I think we need to take extra time to dump all the crap during the day and cuddle and make love. Your partner will appriciate it and you will feel better too. Maybe we should put the sex closer to the top of our lists along with our workouts. LOL
2003/12/26, 03:01 PM
Yep, the ladies are right, we think of little else.

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Charlie
fryer91
fryer91
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2003/12/26, 03:48 PM
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Hmmmmmmmmmm cuddle......
CristalBelle
CristalBelle
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2003/12/26, 04:44 PM
I kinda have the same problem, I am never really turned on or actually WANT to have sex. I think something might be physically wrong with me. I have been like this for almost 3 years, and before that I was crazy about sex.
azredhead57
azredhead57
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2003/12/28, 12:49 AM
It's a given and a catch 22. Men need sex to relax. Women need to relax to want sex. Somebody really messed up on that one, but a little understanding goes a long way to correct it.

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Jdelts
Jdelts
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2003/12/28, 01:21 PM
Stress, stress, stress...this kills hormonal balance and it can definitely cause your libido to decrease to a point where you have almost no desire to nookie.

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Taurie
Taurie
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2003/12/31, 05:31 PM
lol, Charlie...your a riot!

I don't know about the whole 'I'm to busy for sex' thing. It could be cause it's been a while but I'm super busy and that is something that is on my mind more often then it should be. Okay, now I'm blushing.
rpacheco
rpacheco
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2004/01/01, 02:38 AM
Hmmm...the ladies who need to relax might look into yoga and meditation (could be done after working out, or at any stressful time during the day). It certainly won't hurt and may help you get into the mood...

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bardrock69
bardrock69
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United States
2004/01/01, 01:54 PM
Well honey, I am going to have to remember this when I get home. I am going to make sure that your relaxed as much as possible. Wink, Wink.
azredhead57
azredhead57
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2004/01/02, 04:53 PM
Bring lots of liquor....jk

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~Victoria~
...Do not be discouraged; everyone who got where he is, started where he was.--anon
...There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.--Beverly Sills