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2003/09/30, 05:04 PM
Ok here goes. I'm 19 and in my second year of college. Been in a few relationships since like 16 but nothing all that serious. I'm looking for something a little more serious now, and boom, she finds me..or at least thats what i thought. I was runnin on the tread mill here at school, she was runnin on the tread next to me.she started talking to me, we hit it off really well, went out and grabbed some un-healthy food that night then watched a movie. We hung out the next day. and the day after. I've known her for like 5 days(not a lot of time, i know) The crazy thing is we have so much in common, music, movies, the way we talk even. It's pretty crazy. I fell for her pretty hard...way to fast. Here's where the problem comes in. We've been hangin out but it hasn't really been too flirty or anything. She told me that it was hard for her to meet people and she didnt have too many new friends, and that most of the people she met at the school were asses. She told her mom and dad about me over the weekend. She says thing which lead me to think she might want more then just a friendship, like asking me what my favorite cookies are so she can make them for me, she told me to burn her a cd too, and when i told her to make a songlist, she said she wanted me to pick out the songs and surprise her. Just stuff like that. I probably sound like an idiot...but i have no idea what to do. I'm not rushing things...i'm letting them happen. but i have the feeling that she only wants me as a friend. I understand 5 days is not a lot of time, at all. But with all the other girls i've had relationships with, i could almost tell right off the bat that they were interested. I can't with her. any advice would be appreciated. Thanks in advance.
Ronin
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Im not ready for the monotony of life. Not yet. Im still very much young, very much alive, and very much invincible. Im just bracing myself for when god throws out the kryptonite, and sends me crashing back down to earth. Someone get me off this ride. I paid for my ticket, you can keep the refund, dont stamp my hand Im not coming back. Im staying 19 forever.
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2003/09/30, 11:16 PM
if she dont have a boyfriend and shes doing all these wonderful things for ya , GREAT!, just let ur relationship and time grow alittle i guess, until the point of her telling or showing you she likes u more than a friend or it just happens, but if she got a boyfriend i dont know, maybe shes gonna break up with him , or maybe shes just really really friendly. I'm only 17 but I've kinda been in the same situation , and it turned out she was just really really friendly. But you gotta do what s gonna be right for you and whats gonna make you happy.
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