2003/11/09, 11:10 PM
I told my girlfirend of 2 years to kiss a guy as a joke. I really wanted to see if she would do it, and I hoped she didnt. Well she did, and the tongue went a lappin, Im pissed about the issue. My question is, should I be mad at her, or did the test backfire?
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2003/11/10, 01:33 AM
Work Hard, Play Hard, & Move on
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2003/11/10, 04:52 AM
Dude you told her to do it. Suck it up. The only one to be pissed at is yourself
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2003/11/10, 11:26 AM
Play with fire..... How can you be mad - she did what you told her to do? Methinks you won't ever ask that question again. Let it go, and think twice next time.
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2003/11/10, 11:33 AM
My thoughts are the kiss is one thing, but the TYPE of kiss so easily given is quite another. Should in the very least make you go, hhhhmmmmmm.....
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Ron
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2003/11/10, 12:44 PM
That probably wasn't the best thing to ask her to do. How persistent were you in getting her to do this, because I'm wondering why it was obviously more difficult for her to say no than to suck face? I guess it's a good thing you didn't ask her to jump off a bridge.
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2003/11/10, 12:51 PM
I don't loan my chainsaw, boat or my wife. ARE YOU NUTS????
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Charlie
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2003/11/10, 04:17 PM
Yeah, not a good thing to "tell" your gf to do. I wouldn't go telling my bf (of 2 yrs) to go kissing anyone else.
Why were you trying to test her? Do you think she's cheating?
Kirby
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2003/11/10, 07:01 PM
...what if my woman gives me hints to do stuff like this and I don't. Should I be worried? Or is she just joking around or testing me?
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2003/11/11, 12:15 AM
Yikes! What the $%#$ were YOU thinking? If you can't trust her you shouldn't be with her, and that is a pretty rediculous way to find out! Better go back to the drawing board.
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Ivan Montreal Canada
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2003/11/11, 10:40 AM
ok all, so im a dumba__ for staying with her, if i have to test her, my question has been answered. I guess im just being childish, and should give her the boot. thanks for your help. Any single women...lol, just kidding.
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2003/11/11, 01:43 PM
Maybe she should give you the boot.
-------------- I live in my own little world. But its ok. They know me here.
Charlie
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2003/11/11, 02:59 PM
Wait a minute..What kind of a test was that?! First off, were you like: go kiss that guy. sip my drink, so how was your day honey? Or were you like: Come on, kiss someone else...Go on....I dare you....I don't think you'll do it... You have to think. If you egged her on then, heck, I studying to become a preacher and morally she shouldn't have done it, but on the flip side, what kind of a morality test was that? If you egged her on, you made her feel like it was all just a joke and a dare, then, she called your bluff (who cares what kind of a kiss it was, maybe she always french kisses) why should you be mad. And, neither of you are married so, why should she feel like she cheated on you? further more, why would YOU feel like she cheated on you? Examine your concience, maybe you simply are seeking a way to either, a) remove commitment from the table, b) gain an upper hand to use against her, or c) justify your own pride by punishing her for something she did not even conceive herself, but what YOU put in her head in the first place. Like getting your wife to watch porn for the excitement, then blaming her for becoming addicted...
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