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It would depend upon your goals. A profile would be helpful here. Generally, you start with a weight that you can safely handle while maintaining proper form for about 12-15 slow, controlled reps. Add enough weight to bring your reps down to 8-9, add weight to bring it to 5-7, etc. Shoot for 3-4 sets if possible. Your last 1-2 reps should be fairly difficult to complete. By gradually increasing the weight while lowering the reps you create an overload which will force the muscles to 'adapt'. This is just an example and it may take a session or two for you to identify your target weight. Remember, to stretch and warm up properly. Your first set should be a warm-up. Good Luck
I would also suggest you concentrate more on form instead of trying to go heavy the first time out. This is the best advice for any novice weight lifter!
Good luck as well...
-------------- **_Robert_**
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