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dhurt55 Posts: 93 Joined: 2004/01/02	2004/01/27, 06:26 PM Thank you Dellafalls and Kromone, along with all of you other ladies...I think im starting to see the light here...haha....yes Charlie we are but men, I have trouble with multiple syllables :P -------------- "Without Pains, there come no Gains" -Benjamin Franklin
halfpint116 Posts: 189 Joined: 2003/12/29	2004/01/27, 07:45 PM Well, now it is my turn. I agree with what the other ladies said. HA!!! Good looks is a plus that is for sure. But I knew this really hunky guy who KNEW he was hunky and his personality stunk. He made me feel inferior just by the way he acted. Like he was God himself. I hate that. I like a guy who makes me feel comfortable within a few minutes of meeting him. I love someone who jokes around and likes to have fun. I want someone who gives me compliments and tries to make me feel good about myself. Compliments work with us women.
Carivan Posts: 8,542 Joined: 2002/01/20	2004/01/27, 08:05 PM What about the guy who opens doors for a lady, lets her go first, and carries her across the mud! Now, thats why she married me! Oh ya, forgot to tell you....she puts the worm on my hook when we go fishing! -------------- "A will finds a way" Ivan Montreal Canada
halfpint116 Posts: 189 Joined: 2003/12/29	2004/01/27, 08:07 PM I am not an insecure person and I feel really confident with myself and my body so when a guy compliments me I know he is not feeding me full of it. I guess I never thought about what I was saying when I said it. I don't feed guys full of bolonga either. But I also don't give compliments where compliments aren't due.
pimple Posts: 490 Joined: 2003/07/08	2004/01/27, 11:24 PM WHAT ABOUT BREAKDANCERS?
cobra93 Posts: 131 Joined: 2003/10/20	2004/01/28, 02:13 AM Justin Timberlake....really Robert? I think he's more like Eminem....but hotter and waayyyy taller..... Yes looks matter----initially. But if the personality blows then looks become irrelevant.
perfect_elise Posts: 63 Joined: 2003/10/07	2004/01/28, 03:07 AM If you're quoting names, Denzel Washington as attractive as men get, I guess. :D BUT: I'm not necessarily *attracted* to the guys I like to look at. I'm not that much into perfection. Looks matter a lot to me, but not in terms of perfection/ imperfection, but rather in terms of familiarity. I could fall for a guy who has nothing to do with my aesthetic ideal just because I feel comfortable around him. I do, however, have a soft spot for guys with big feet :D I'm not sure how valid my opinions are, typing this post I've reached the conclusion that I'm a total freak. ;) -------------- ...snow can wait, I forgot my mittens...
greekgirl77 Posts: 8 Joined: 2004/01/20	2004/01/28, 02:03 PM What ladies look for in a guy.... A JOB and NO STD's. That would be good enough for me...lol!
halfpint116 Posts: 189 Joined: 2003/12/29	2004/01/28, 02:27 PM greek, you go girl!!! I'm with you all the way on that one.
dhurt55 Posts: 93 Joined: 2004/01/02	2004/01/28, 09:08 PM LOL!! Yes, lack of STD's is always a plus!! HAHA...Hey Pimple have you seen that new movie about breakdancing yet?...I think in that..the girls like breakdancers...haah :) -------------- "Without Pains, there come no Gains" -Benjamin Franklin
azredhead57 Posts: 1,651 Joined: 2003/04/11	2004/01/29, 05:07 PM I like the guy who likes me. (And that of course would be my hubby) You can have all of those other qualities in a man, but if he doesnt genuinely like you for who you are, you might as well throw in the towel early. And that works both ways. My husband got my attention because it was clear that he liked me and truly enjoyed my company. -------------- ~Victoria~ ...Do not be discouraged; everyone who got where he is, started where he was.--anon ...There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.--Beverly Sills
supergrrl Posts: 23 Joined: 2003/09/10	2004/01/30, 01:08 PM hmmm...what do i look for in a guy...hope you're sitting down, this could take awhile!! hee hee... no seriously. i like guys who take care of themselves and make an effort to look good. they don't have to be model/pretty boy at all, in fact i really like interesting looking men - men with features that set them apart. Height is important to me - i'm fairly tall and i like to wear heels - as is confidence (of course, not to the point of arrogance) He must must MUST be able to carry on an interesting conversation - i'm not saying he has to know everything about everything, but at least have an interest, ask questions, look at things from a different point of view. Grand gestures like romantic dinners and jewelry are all well and good, but i love the little things: i dated a guy once who left before i got up to go to work, but always started the coffee for me. Another guy took care of me for three days when i was sick, bringing me soup and magazines and sat by me to make sure i was ok. That kind of stuff really wins me over. Mistakes? i really hate it when guys try to pick me up in bars. they make it fairly obvious that they are only looking for a companion for the next few hours and say empty things like "i like your hair" Guys, feel free about approaching an attractive woman in the grocery store, at the art museum, at the library! i'm much more receptive at public places during the day than at dark bars where the alcohol has been flowing. (just check for a ring first!! ;-) also - EYE CONTACT! SMILE! BE HONEST! oh - and don't get discouraged easily...it may not be fair, but sometimes i want to know if i guy likes me in particular or is just looking for someone in a skirt. If i have that suspicion the guy gets the brush off initally, but nothing is more attractive than perseverance! and rule #1?? the ring had better be platinum! ;-) more than you wanted to know i'm sure but that's what you get from supergrrl...
wrestler125 Posts: 4,619 Joined: 2004/01/27	2004/01/30, 09:45 PM ============ Quoting from greekgirl77: What ladies look for in a guy.... A JOB and NO STD's. That would be good enough for me...lol! ============= Wow, you girls (Greek and Halfpint) have real high standards. -------------- \"I get up in the morning around six to run for about an hour. Later in the day, I lift with a partner. Following my lifting sessions, I usually do speed and agility drills. Later, I drill all my holds and moves.\" \'Isnt that lifestyle boring?\' \"Yes, but the gold medal is very shiny.\" Ichiguchi Olympic Gold Medalist
dhurt55 Posts: 93 Joined: 2004/01/02	2004/01/30, 10:28 PM Haha yeah really(about the high standards :P)...Oh yeah I remember the name of that new breakdancing movie, I think its "You Got Served" or something like that. -------------- "Without Pains, there come no Gains" -Benjamin Franklin
dellafalls Posts: 41 Joined: 2003/09/27	2004/02/01, 12:28 PM Hey, I just wanted this is an interesting thread and everyone that has given thought about what they want in a partner should be cultivating those qualities in themshelves because that is who you will them attract!!!!!!!It's about you not them!!!!
deppfan Posts: 8 Joined: 2004/02/03	2004/02/08, 08:16 PM I just want to say first of all I think it's great dhurt that you are trying to figure us women out. Were not easy creatures that is for sure. ---Looks, like other women said do matter, but there is a different oponion of what good looks are so they are important, but really there is someone out there who is going to find you attractive because your going to be "somebody's" type. ---personality, is KEY! I have been notorious for falling for, well unattractive men, but they are the kind of men that become attractive after you get to know them. You find things about them that you love. --The most attractive thing about a man besides his outward appearance is his willingness to just be himself. It is sooo refreshing to find someone who has their head screwed on and is willing to stand up for what he believes and not care what others may think about him for doing so. ---mistakes...the list wouldn't fit in the message board. :)
Leilita808 Posts: 154 Joined: 2004/01/07	2004/02/09, 07:57 AM introduce the girl to your dog...dog's sense evil
Julisa Posts: 87 Joined: 2004/01/27	2004/02/09, 09:44 AM I agree 150% on that Leilita!!
Julisa Posts: 87 Joined: 2004/01/27	2004/02/09, 11:08 AM It means that you are evil and that you must be put to death. (either that or you looked like a huge chew toy ;)
Julisa Posts: 87 Joined: 2004/01/27	2004/02/10, 07:10 AM LMAO, bhardy!!!! Pick me up at eight....you bring flowers, wine, and dog biscuits...I'll bring the first aid kit, ok?
hecdarec Posts: 2,457 Joined: 2003/12/16	2004/02/10, 10:06 AM Yeah bhardy you really turned her on with that one! -------------- Hec da Rec in full effect.
Julisa Posts: 87 Joined: 2004/01/27	2004/02/10, 10:10 AM Never mind b...you didn't get it. ;) (besides, if your tounge is forked, it would miss the good spots.)
	2004/02/10, 10:37 AM Yo, bhardy. Read your profile. Are you really only 6" tall. Julisa, I don't think the dog will bite him, prolly just make a quick snack. I know now where the sickos hang out. I feel right at home. -------------- Some times life is like herding cats. Charlie
k1972pat Posts: 154 Joined: 2003/06/10	2004/02/10, 10:41 AM Dang, 6 inches tall at 146lbs.... i bet that looks strange? LOL Just kiddin!
Julisa Posts: 87 Joined: 2004/01/27	2004/02/10, 10:45 AM b...there is not much that is subtle about me, I was just giving it right back to you...the cherry one is my favorite. c...yes she will, she will bite anybody that comes close to me unless I call her town, she was an abusively trained attack dog until I got her. I'm still working with her to build the trust. You two do have something in common, though...she hates cats;)
hecdarec Posts: 2,457 Joined: 2003/12/16	2004/02/10, 10:47 AM Dont mess with Charlie =) -------------- Hec da Rec in full effect.
	2004/02/10, 10:53 AM Hec, he can TRY to screw with the geezer. The pups usually find out its like the lil league takin on Willie Mayes!! Julisa, I find you totally subtle refined and to be the soul of southern genteelity. -------------- Some times life is like herding cats. Charlie
Julisa Posts: 87 Joined: 2004/01/27	2004/02/10, 10:57 AM b...you'd be licking my thigh? ;) c...well, then, you obviously have not seen me pissed off!
	2004/02/10, 10:59 AM I only really piss off the ones I love. -------------- Some times life is like herding cats. Charlie
hecdarec Posts: 2,457 Joined: 2003/12/16	2004/02/10, 11:01 AM Is this penthouse forum? -------------- Hec da Rec in full effect.
Julisa Posts: 87 Joined: 2004/01/27	2004/02/10, 11:03 AM Is that why you say that you are afraid of your wife Charlie? LOL By the way...message me and let me know what your grandfather's name was again, would ya? I read something and I think it might be about him but I cannot be sure because I cannot remember his first name, ok?
Julisa Posts: 87 Joined: 2004/01/27	2004/02/10, 11:15 AM That is why we have instant messages bhardy....:0 I gotcha, you didn't loose me at all sweetie, just playing the game. It's all good.
	2004/02/10, 11:15 AM I'm not the one who is trying to impress da wiminz with tales of forked tails and being 6" tall, youngun. Oh yeah excuse me I have to email the lady per her request. LOL -------------- Some times life is like herding cats. Charlie
	2004/02/10, 11:26 AM I am also a great comfort to myself in my old age.. . -------------- Some times life is like herding cats. Charlie
Julisa Posts: 87 Joined: 2004/01/27	2004/02/10, 12:35 PM Sounds like a plan to me b, do you prefer grapes or cherries? Wait, by then I'll be starving...I'm bringing the whole damn basket!
7707mutt Posts: 7,686 Joined: 2002/06/18	2004/02/10, 12:52 PM Oh my this is a hot topic! I am just plain drop dead beautiful.............at least to my wife LOL. It was my personaltiy that got her attention that and the fact that I had no clue as to what I was doing LOL it drove her nuts! -------------- LIFT HEAVY! BECOME STRONG, LIKE BULL!
Julisa Posts: 87 Joined: 2004/01/27	2004/02/10, 02:35 PM So we have the menu and the time...how's about telling me where we are going? (A girl has to know what to wear you know) LOL
diana_1 Posts: 22 Joined: 2004/02/09	2004/02/11, 04:52 PM Attitude. he has to have a good attitude. And know what he wants with his life. No dreams about doing this and that. Makes sence??

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