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Ogun Posts: 559 Joined: 2002/08/11	2004/02/09, 01:09 PM Hey, Is it normal for a 31-year-old man (yours truly) to not really need a girlfriend? I hear the occasional war drums of passion beating and I get a hankerin' for a lovely lady and a 2 or 3 week cliff's notes relationship. Is that so wrong? And are there women in the world that feel the same? And if there aren't any women that feel that way, what's a guy to do? -------------- --There are no versions of the truth.-- Jeff Goldblum, Jurassic Park II
KevinA. Posts: 8 Joined: 2004/01/18	2004/02/09, 01:42 PM Well to use my photo as a analogy; there are usually two types of people: the lone wolf and wolf packs. Nothing is wrong with either one. After my first marriage ended after ten years(age 18-28), the last thing I wanted was a long term relationship but after another ten years of bachelorhood, when the right one came along I was open and ready for another kick at the can (metaphorically speaking!). One question for you Ogun... have you ever been in a long term relationship? If so, how did it end?
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2004/02/09, 02:20 PM Ogun - If I remember your story correctly, you have been seriously burned in your last relationship. No wonder you feel this way - perfectly normal. Once bitten, twice shy. As long as the ladies you are dating know that you aren't interested in anything long term at the moment,so they don't get hurt, I don't think that there is anything wrong with that.
rpacheco Posts: 3,770 Joined: 2001/12/13	2004/02/09, 04:14 PM Nope...nothing wrong with that at all! -------------- **_Robert_** Pain is temporary; glory is forever!
agamble Posts: 1,029 Joined: 2003/09/22	2004/02/09, 06:24 PM Really. Who says everybody has to be hitched? You sound pretty normal to me.
agamble Posts: 1,029 Joined: 2003/09/22	2004/02/09, 06:24 PM Really. Who says everybody has to be hitched? You sound pretty normal to me.
	2004/02/09, 06:44 PM me too -------------- Some times life is like herding cats. Charlie
	2004/02/09, 06:44 PM me too -------------- Some times life is like herding cats. Charlie
Ogun Posts: 559 Joined: 2002/08/11	2004/02/09, 07:56 PM Yes I Am Azon, I did get burned. But I've pretty much discharged all of that anger, and I have no fear short of my child getting hurt. I truly feel as though I just don't need anybody, and that the effort, pains, and conspiracies of everyday couple life will never be worth it for me again. I don't disagree with any of you, and as scary as it sounds, I find your words to be the ULTIMATE compliments, Charlie and agamble! Me?! Normal!! Frikken A!! -------------- --There are no versions of the truth.-- Jeff Goldblum, Jurassic Park II
	2004/02/09, 08:07 PM You are ok ogun. Alot of us have been there. It will pass when you are ready. -------------- Some times life is like herding cats. Charlie
Carivan Posts: 8,542 Joined: 2002/01/20	2004/02/09, 09:15 PM very normal. -------------- "A will finds a way" Ivan Montreal Canada