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diana_1 Posts: 22 Joined: 2004/02/09	2004/02/10, 05:47 PM I would like to know if anyone out there can tell me why while I am having sex I feel the urge to pee and sometimes feel like I will pee on myself if I dont get up!! I hate to break the moment to go to the potty!!!
hecdarec Posts: 2,457 Joined: 2003/12/16	2004/02/10, 05:48 PM Pee on him he wont mind. -------------- Hec da Rec in full effect.
Carivan Posts: 8,542 Joined: 2002/01/20	2004/02/10, 05:52 PM its impossible to pee. It is possible for a female to ejaculate, and that is the sensation you are feeling. From what I have read, just let it go. Actually a woman can ejaculate and still have an orgasm. Please don't ask me how I know! -------------- "A will finds a way" Ivan Montreal Canada
diana_1 Posts: 22 Joined: 2004/02/09	2004/02/10, 05:57 PM No, we can pee because it has happened to me before! I was thinking maybe my doctor should be the one to tell me why this is happening right???
halfpint116 Posts: 189 Joined: 2003/12/29	2004/02/10, 06:19 PM Okay, I don't know about any of the other women on here but for me it felt like I was peeing but it wasn't pee. It was called female ejaculation. I am old enough and have read enough to know the difference. When it is pee it smells like pee when it is ejaculation it has a different smell and IT IS not like pee. There is a difference between having an orgasm and ejaculating for a woman. You will know if it ever happens to you. Diana, use the bathroom before having sex and if you still feel that urge during sex it probably isn't because you need to pee!!!
Carivan Posts: 8,542 Joined: 2002/01/20	2004/02/10, 06:19 PM The dr will give you the best answers. -------------- "A will finds a way" Ivan Montreal Canada
hecdarec Posts: 2,457 Joined: 2003/12/16	2004/02/10, 07:25 PM A possible reason that she has the urge to pee is because during intercourse (in most positions) there is pressure at the top of the vagina. The penis is hitting a membrane and behind that membrane is the bladder. Most likely that is what is causing you to feel the urge to pee. My best advice would be to stick your finger in his anal cavity just as you are feeling this pressure. This will cause him to jump up in shock, giving you the chance to urinate on the bed while he is recooperating. -------------- DR of gynecology and sexual therapy.
mmaibohm Posts: 1,621 Joined: 2003/09/30	2004/02/10, 07:40 PM give him the shower the shocker is cruel -------------- I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it is gone past me I will turn to see fear's path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain
Taurie Posts: 374 Joined: 2003/10/15	2004/02/10, 07:53 PM Poor girl, the post reads 'embarassing question' not 'tropic of cancer'. Diana, always use the restroom before and after sex. If you are prone to bladder infections drink cranberry juice and always use the restroom after sex, swimming and taking a bath.
goodoldtex Posts: 564 Joined: 2004/01/25	2004/02/10, 10:52 PM halfpint is right. For women, ejaculation can occur without orgasm, and if its urination you will smell the urea (aka piss). But if its ejac, it will ahve a differenc consistency and coloration as well as smell. Like halfpint said...go pee before sex, and if it comes up, it could be ejaculation....however others are correct, during intercourse there is a lot of pressure on the bladder for 2 reasons...the male body pushing down on top of the pubic bone, and the head of the penis pushing at the right point in the vagina that pushes up against the bladder then. Uhm, for guys its a bit different since it all comes out of the urethra, but its different for a woman. I dunno...its kinda a sensitive subject, but have you ever felt this during manual stimulation (fingering or self stimulation)? if you have its most likely ejaculation because more than likely the fingers arent reaching far enough to trigger the feeling in the bladder. If pain comes with the ejaculation or urination whichever it may be, def. see a doctor be cause it then very well could be a bladder infection ...dunno if any of that helps...hope so
Philia2 Posts: 4,078 Joined: 2001/10/19	2004/02/11, 02:29 AM ============ Quoting from hecdarec: A possible reason that she has the urge to pee is because during intercourse (in most positions) there is pressure at the top of the vagina. The penis is hitting a membrane and behind that membrane is the bladder. Most likely that is what is causing you to feel the urge to pee. My best advice would be to stick your finger in his anal cavity just as you are feeling this pressure. This will cause him to jump up in shock, giving you the chance to urinate on the bed while he is recooperating. ============= LOL you wrote it very right, but was it necessairy with the personal advice?!!! (o; -------------- - Nina :o) Les Victoires éternelles sont celles du coeur. www.nme-pro.com
CristalBelle Posts: 1,389 Joined: 2003/06/27	2004/02/11, 10:35 AM You can pee while having sex, and like the others said, it's because of pressure on the bladder. Try using some different positions, and make sure you go to the bathroom beforehand if possible. Also, doing kleigles(spelling) will help to strengthen the muscles in that area, and might help in the long run.
azredhead57 Posts: 1,651 Joined: 2003/04/11	2004/02/11, 01:20 PM I think some of you smarta$$es need to stay out of the women's forum unless you have a legitimate answer. Diana- It is embarassing. And it most likely is just pressure on your bladder. The advice you got about going to the bathroom before is good, but some women actually have more intense orgasms when their bladder is full, so it is a catch 22. Honestly if your partner doesnt mind (and some dont) dont worry too much about it. After 3 children I had this problem, and a very understanding husband. Last year I had a surgery that actually lifted my bladder back into a more normal position and I no longer have this problem, but like I said it has been a trade off. There is also another explanation of course and that is that the sex is so intense and you are so into it that you just cant control yourself. Kind of like when my dogs (both girls of course) get so excited to see me that they wet on the floor. -------------- ~Victoria~ ...Do not be discouraged; everyone who got where he is, started where he was.--anon ...There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.--Beverly Sills
diana_1 Posts: 22 Joined: 2004/02/09	2004/02/11, 04:03 PM Thanks to azredhead57. I really like your advice and one thing, what are you men doing in this forum anyways???? This supposed to be for females. I have tried going to the bathroom before sex and I still feel that urge. I have stopped in the middle of sex and gone to the bathroom and peed. never had an infection so I know thats not the problem and I have felt this in all posotions. Thanks to you all...
fryer91 Posts: 441 Joined: 2003/09/29	2004/02/11, 04:07 PM whew-glad I stayed out of this one...
hecdarec Posts: 2,457 Joined: 2003/12/16	2004/02/11, 04:12 PM My response was actually taken directly from my wife minus my sick humor at the end. Just trying to add some light humor to the subject. Sorry if I offended anyone. Women post in the male forum, I will continue to post in the female forum unless a moderator tells me I cannot. -------------- Hecdarec in full effect.
fryer91 Posts: 441 Joined: 2003/09/29	2004/02/11, 04:18 PM whew-glad I stayed out of this one...
goodoldtex Posts: 564 Joined: 2004/01/25	2004/02/11, 04:20 PM i apologize if its odd that a 19 yr old male is posting here, but my mother is/was a labor and delivery nurse, so i just know quite a bit about the Reproductive and Urinary systems having read her books a number of times... Once again, i apologize if i didn't help at all.
azredhead57 Posts: 1,651 Joined: 2003/04/11	2004/02/11, 04:39 PM On the contrary guys, no one minds you being here if you are here to actually give good advice and not make fun of the questions. Lately all over these boards it seems every question and comment turns into a sexual one, or worse a joke. Can we try to keep some measure of respect and maturity when answering peoples questions, and not make them even more uncomfortable? Or worse run them off the boards completely? Sorry for the lecture. -------------- ~Victoria~ ...Do not be discouraged; everyone who got where he is, started where he was.--anon ...There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.--Beverly Sills
diana_1 Posts: 22 Joined: 2004/02/09	2004/02/11, 04:44 PM Hey, Im cool with everyone. No hard feelings here... :)
Reddy Posts: 597 Joined: 2003/09/11	2004/02/11, 07:18 PM Thank you azredhead - I haven't been posting in the women's part because of all the jokes the guys had been putting here. But it will be awhile before I post something that I think might embrass me becuase I'm not sure the guys would stay out or be helpful -------------- Reddy All people smile in the same language
Carivan Posts: 8,542 Joined: 2002/01/20	2004/02/11, 07:37 PM I didn't realize I was offending anybody. If thats the case, I'm outta here. Even though it's a discussion, I guess some people don't want to hear from the male gender.
	2004/02/11, 07:51 PM Fryer, I am with you buddy, some female discussions are best left to the females. I will participate as I see fit though. Peace Ladies. -------------- Some times life is like herding cats. Charlie
goodoldtex Posts: 564 Joined: 2004/01/25	2004/02/11, 08:56 PM bhardy thats pretty much an article that i read verbatim out of the books my mother had (well without some of the colossal climax references). Thx for posting that, it could clear up any confusion made by my earliest post, plus its the most in-depth anyone on here has gone. And i wouldn't feel too bad about it being detailed, sometimes these 'urges' or 'situations' are complicated and need the detailed description....however if a moderator cans it, then you know it shoulda been an IM
Jdelts Posts: 1,218 Joined: 2003/10/19	2004/02/11, 11:10 PM BINGO BHARDY...ladies please read the above, this question has bee raised many times to me and I take it from the book. -------------- May the lift be with you.
clt Posts: 107 Joined: 2004/02/13	2004/02/17, 11:27 AM to answer to question medically, the erge to urinate during sexual intercourse come from the senstions produced by the clitoris that puts pressure on the mucousis membranes in the vagina, thus causing famale ejaculation. curtis lee tate (clt) hospital corpsman- u.s.navy
RTLintner Posts: 19 Joined: 2004/01/14	2004/02/19, 08:01 PM Diana, there's a good possibility that what you are feeling is not an urge to urinate, but an urge to ejaculate. Yes, female ejaculation is possible, and yes, it is usually clear in..color (much like the appearance of urine). -------------- Pain is weakness leaving the body.
Zackariah Posts: 17 Joined: 2004/10/19	2004/10/21, 10:05 PM i wasnt especting that on the topic of embarrasing question...LOL!!!