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liz6662002 Posts: 21 Joined: 2004/02/29	2004/02/29, 08:10 PM Will exersize and eating healthy increase a man's libido? I don't know what's going on, but sex is once in a blue moon, BUT he looks at "porn" often. Will us toning up and exersizing together change that?

	2004/02/29, 08:20 PM Watch the por with him. See what happens.:cool: -------------- Some times life is like herding cats. Charlie
liz6662002 Posts: 21 Joined: 2004/02/29	2004/02/29, 08:22 PM I do sometimes, but he looks at it when I'm not home. Or he'll go to the "bathroom" while I am home
	2004/02/29, 08:25 PM Thats harsh! :( -------------- Some times life is like herding cats. Charlie
liz6662002 Posts: 21 Joined: 2004/02/29	2004/02/29, 08:27 PM Yup. So I don't know what to do. It's not like I'm ugly. 5'9, 149 odd pounds, long, dark hair, he says I'm gorgeous but...
mmaibohm Posts: 1,621 Joined: 2003/09/30	2004/02/29, 08:29 PM Sounds like some deeper issues than just libido. -------------- I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it is gone past me I will turn to see fear's path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain
liz6662002 Posts: 21 Joined: 2004/02/29	2004/02/29, 08:34 PM How would one approach that without him getting mad? I've talked to him before about the porn and our sex life, he says he's just tired. But I've never said anything about the "bathroom" incidents -------------- True love is hard to find, loneliness is just a blink away
	2004/02/29, 08:40 PM Hell, make him mad. :angry: -------------- Some times life is like herding cats. Charlie
liz6662002 Posts: 21 Joined: 2004/02/29	2004/02/29, 08:42 PM lol...no thanks. Actually, I was going to have a male friend of ours talk to him, just start up a convo saying his g/f asked if he still found her sexually attractive, and see what my b/f says. I can't ask him, he'd just lie (smart man lol) -------------- True love is hard to find, loneliness is just a blink away
	2004/02/29, 08:45 PM OK you can pass notes too. :laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh: Sounds brilliant. -------------- Some times life is like herding cats. Charlie
liz6662002 Posts: 21 Joined: 2004/02/29	2004/02/29, 08:47 PM lol..it's the best I can do -------------- True love is hard to find, loneliness is just a blink away
	2004/02/29, 09:49 PM Well of coarse its not really a problem until he lays the Playboy centerfold across your face when making love. :big_smile: If that happens maybee you should actually talk. -------------- Some times life is like herding cats. Charlie
mmaibohm Posts: 1,621 Joined: 2003/09/30	2004/02/29, 09:52 PM That would be one i would like to see charlie lol -------------- I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it is gone past me I will turn to see fear's path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain
Jdelts Posts: 1,218 Joined: 2003/10/19	2004/03/01, 01:00 AM Gotta confront him...if you can't then how strong is your relationship? Sorry, I don't mean to be rude but this exact question was raised a few months ago and I was able to help the person through their little ordeal. Communication is the key here. You may not like what you will here from him but at least you know what he likes....During that, tell him what you want, but do not demand it, try to reach a common ground. If he can't go without porn, then try to have him commit to lessening it. Spice things up in bed, or try something different, but first let him know this(the lack of libido) is a problem for you. -------------- May the lift be with you.