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2004/04/25, 04:48 PM
Okay, so I am married, but I can still LOOK, right?
We were at our favorite mexican restaurant tonight and had our usual very cute waiter, cesar. And somehow the subject of attractive waiters came up in our conversation (I am with my husband and nine-year-old daughter), and I say, yes, cesar is very attractive, but there are a lot of cute mexican men/boys at the restuarant. So my husband, in defense of Cesar's ranking, asks who I think is cuter. there is a very young busboy with very smokey eyes and a killer smile, so I point him out. So, now we are all watching him as he clears a table off in another section. He must have felt us staring, because he turned around and shot us a dazzling smile. There is my whole family, looking at him and smiling like idiots. How embarrassing! Busted ogling the waitstaff, with my whole family!
OKay, not going there for a while! The poor guy, i hope he knew that we were looking because he is so handsome, not that we were just taling about him, or something.
Umm, to justify this, let me say that I check out the waitresses, also. My husband used to get upset about my looking at men, but when i told him how beautiful I think Mile Jojovich is, he decided it was okay. i am just looking and appreciating!
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2004/04/25, 04:58 PM
I am like that too. I check out just as many women as men probably. We had a really cute waitress in Sedona and I commented to my husband that she had really nice lips. Of course these comments always leave him a little baffled, but with a smile. :big_smile: I just appreciate nice features on anyone, male or female. And Amy it sounds to me like you made the guys day. Nothing like knowing you are being ogled appreciatively, right?
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~Victoria~
...Do not be discouraged; everyone who got where he is, started where he was.--anon
...There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.--Beverly Sills
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2004/04/25, 05:04 PM
Except that we are all staring at him with stupid looks on our faces when he turns around. Bunch of silly gringos...
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2004/04/25, 05:13 PM
How funny! I'm sure you made his day although you felt silly getting caught.
I'm sure this has already started another little survey, but I also check women out as often as I check out men. My boyfriend is always hopeful, pointing out opportunities for me to become bi-sexual, so he views this as a positive.
And no, for those of you getting ready to ask, I'm not a bi-sexual although I am not opposed to it.
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Anni
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Have you hugged your EFAs today?
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2004/04/26, 02:09 PM
That's funny anni, cuz hubby has also made comments like 'let me know when you see something you like'. Just men being HOPEFUL I guess :laugh:
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~Victoria~
...Do not be discouraged; everyone who got where he is, started where he was.--anon
...There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.--Beverly Sills
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2004/04/26, 04:20 PM
We were at a large Mall here in Mtl, and when we are out we enjoy watching people, be it male or female. The last time at this mall, I saw this very cheap looking "barbie doll" from a distance and said to my wife..."hey look at that isn't that overkill, make up clothing, heels, etc .....I wonder where the circus is?"" as the couple got closer it was my wife's cousin who she hadn't seen in years! No I didn't get blasted.
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"A will finds a way, failure is not an option"
Ivan
carivan@freetrainers.com
Montreal Canada
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2004/04/26, 04:41 PM
My wife commented the other night at a restaurant how beautifil this blond was who walked by our table. I told her it was no lady. When the blond came back from the bathroom, sure enough it was a transvestite. I'm not sure what it meant but most likely Tex and Bhardy will explain in graphic detail.:big_smile:
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A problem ceases to be such when you can laugh about it.
Charlie
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2004/04/26, 05:33 PM
I am always happy to point out a particularly attractive female to my husband (or just notice appreciatively myself). I am also quick to compliment a stranger, and somehow I thing the fellow was okay with being ogled.
Firm bums and abs and sexy sculpted arms catch my attention, as those are things I work so hard to see in the mirror -- it's nice to see on someone else.
Funny though, I never hear him saying "oooh honey look at that guys ass.. now that is TIGHT!".. :laugh:
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