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sexygrl911 Posts: 23 Joined: 2004/08/09	2004/09/20, 09:22 PM Okay well about two weeks ago i started hanging out with a guy that i met with my friend.. I had heard of him and seen him around school but we never really hung out.. Well he seemed really cool and although he isnt like drop dead gorgeous there is just something about him that draws my attention.. Hes real cool and he has a really nice truck and for a while there i thought i was just attracted to him because he had a REALLY NICE truck but me and my friend saw him again tonight and again something just draws me to him like i blush and find myself all shy and i think its more than his truck.. Well this might sound all great but theres 2 problems: 1 being i feel intimidated by him he hangs with alot of people(popularity) and i am terrified of rejection i am afraid that if i have my friend ask him what he thinks of me hes going to be like ewwww shes gross or something like that... AND then theres the one BIG problem his ex girlfriend........we have 5th hour together and shes alright to me NOW but if you knew this girl you would understand you piss her off your DONE she will do everything to make your life hell.....what should i do go for it or let it be>>>>HELLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPP
jovonnie Posts: 1 Joined: 2004/09/20	2004/09/20, 09:31 PM well let me tell you something sweetie, I have had my run ins with men and I finnally found oen it is not about looks it is about hoe the person makes you feel and what exactally it is they can do for you if you are afraid of rejection you should be but how will you ever knoe if you dont ask him for yoru self what he really thinks of you get him out of the school environment and away form his friends and just talk to him it may be difficult but I am shure you can find a way to get him away form all the school mess. as for his ex I wouldnt worrie about here most people are all talk and no show or better yet stand up for yoru self and say he isnt with you any more it is fair game now for me to presue him. IF she wants to make yoru life hell she really dosent have one of her own then that is a life I mean. go for it rejection is part of lifew and if you dont ask you will never know what might have been and if you are rejected it was most likely ment to be it is not the end of the world and you will realize that there are better men out there then him anyways. :big_smile: good luck :)
big_j_scf Posts: 308 Joined: 2003/11/08	2004/09/21, 03:12 PM other people should never make youre decision for you i.e. his friends or ex girlfriend. do exactly what you would do if they didn't exist. -------------- I have some good news! I just saved a bunch of money on my car insurance by switching to Gieco!
arondaballer Posts: 1,054 Joined: 2003/06/14	2004/09/21, 10:10 PM Don't EVER have your friend ask a dude if he likes you or not. It strikes me as immature when girls do that to me, and I would much rather them just say somethin to me. Just my two cents. And don't be terrified of rejection. If it's in God's will for you two to be together, then it will happen, and if it's not in his will, it's not meant to be anyway...so what I'm sayin I guess is, DON'T WORRY -------------- I firmly believe that any man's finest hour, the greatest fulfillment of all that he holds dear, is the moment when he has worked his heart out in a good cause and lies exhausted on the field of battle-victorious. --Vince Lombardi "Decide what you want, decide what you are willing to exchange for it. Establish your priorities and go to work." H. L. Hunt
firemansam Posts: 147 Joined: 2004/08/20	2004/09/22, 07:34 AM Even if he doesnt like you he will appreciate it if you come forward and say something. I personally find it a real turn on when girls come on to me. Just on a side note i have to say that terrible spelling makes me feel bad jovonnie
bigandrew Posts: 5,146 Joined: 2002/10/21	2004/09/22, 12:48 PM who cares what the ex thinks.....if you like him, ask him i fhes going to the football game this weekend. Or ask he to "show" you some stuff he knwos alot about. Like ask him( if you have a car) what kinda assories can be getting for your car. Find a way to make a conversation with him. -------------- if you want sympathy......from me...in a dictionary look between symphony and syphillis.......there you'll find it!
sexygrl911 Posts: 23 Joined: 2004/08/09	2004/09/22, 09:21 PM thank you good advice about the car thing...he is really into his truck and knows alot about cars.....I am not sure about what i want to do with the situation...i want to get to know him better first hang out a little more and see where it goes from there
boost1 Posts: 19 Joined: 2003/08/30	2004/09/23, 08:18 PM Ditto on firemansams comment. Your a girl, hes a guy, he's gonna like you regardless; natures way. If you hook up, how he treats you is a whole different subject. Is it an extended cab? :laugh: ============ Quoting from firemansam: Even if he doesnt like you he will appreciate it if you come forward and say something. I personally find it a real turn on when girls come on to me. Just on a side note i have to say that terrible spelling makes me feel bad jovonnie =============
sexygrl911 Posts: 23 Joined: 2004/08/09	2004/09/24, 04:47 PM nah its not an extended cab but i do admit i have imagined hooking up with him in the truck(did i just say that) i dont know what it is about the damn truck but he does look good in it...It a ford f-150 lightning...Its very nice and all...haha.. i dont know waht i want to do with this situation
firemansam Posts: 147 Joined: 2004/08/20	2004/09/24, 10:56 PM Walk up to the boy and tell him that you have imagined doing things with him in the back of his truck and he will be yours forever. Alternatively say 'hey how you doing, want to do something this weekend' if your still nervous about asking him out by yourself invite a group and make out like your inviting lots of people
boost1 Posts: 19 Joined: 2003/08/30	2004/09/28, 01:24 AM Again ditto on firemansam's comment and if you play it right, that truck can be yours...... ============ Quoting from firemansam: Walk up to the boy and tell him that you have imagined doing things with him in the back of his truck and he will be yours forever. Alternatively say 'hey how you doing, want to do something this weekend' if your still nervous about asking him out by yourself invite a group and make out like your inviting lots of people =============
clt Posts: 107 Joined: 2004/02/13	2004/09/28, 07:06 AM just be yourself
sexygrl911 Posts: 23 Joined: 2004/08/09	2004/09/30, 10:02 PM UPDATE>>>>>>>>>>>> so i made the decision to say something well my best friend just happened to get to him one hour before i did...so she basically told him that i wanted to do him in his truck and i guess he was like oh!!!Well i have a girlfriend........yeah well that was a waste
firemansam Posts: 147 Joined: 2004/08/20	2004/10/01, 04:44 AM ouch... dont worry about it im sure theres plenty of other cool guys around with even better trucks
allanmurray Posts: 4 Joined: 2004/10/06	2004/10/07, 02:44 AM Hey sexygirl, you've just experienced my life motto.... "Don't die wondering!" Chin up pal, don't let it stop you ever asking again and let this Chinese proverb get you through life : "Fall 7 times, stand up 8" : )
Pritchard Posts: 1,212 Joined: 2004/03/02	2004/10/07, 12:28 PM 'fall 7 times, get up 8' was someones signature on this site for a while. -------------- *AIM HIGH, AND YOULL SHOOT THE STARS *AIM LOW, AND YOULL SHOOT YOURSELF IN THE FOOT. A.D.F.
hecdarec Posts: 2,457 Joined: 2003/12/16	2004/10/07, 12:31 PM If you fall 7 times, you should invest in a walker. -------------- You can cover up the flaws on your body, but there is no hiding a flawed personality.
sexygrl911 Posts: 23 Joined: 2004/08/09	2004/10/09, 04:53 PM It wasnt like he blew me off he basically told my best friend he thought i was cool and cute but he has a girlfriend right now and he cant really like a girl that he barely knows....I find him glancing at me all the time though like in the hall and when we are near each other i dont know whether to take that as a good or a bad thing
hannahcherry Posts: 9 Joined: 2005/10/24	2005/10/24, 02:54 PM well kepp us updated it helped me with a problem i had
bigandrew Posts: 5,146 Joined: 2002/10/21	2005/10/24, 08:02 PM he prolly just thinks your easy..since you wanna "hook" up with him in the truck... -------------- Friends don't let friends squat high... People don't reach thier true potental, only those who seek it.
GoMcnabb Posts: 72 Joined: 2005/05/30	2005/10/24, 08:36 PM If at first you dont suceed, dont try bungee jumping.
Kalanchoe Posts: 400 Joined: 2003/02/18	2005/10/25, 04:34 AM It's better to regret something you did than something you didn't do. Also, I think society needs to stop having an issue with women being 'easy'. I was easy at uni, and I had a great time - I don't regret a thing. Plus, guys are pretty easy, too! -------------- each to their own
bigandrew Posts: 5,146 Joined: 2002/10/21	2005/10/25, 09:59 AM kalanchoe.....free this weekend? :big_smile: -------------- Friends don't let friends squat high... People don't reach thier true potental, only those who seek it.
Kalanchoe Posts: 400 Joined: 2003/02/18	2005/10/25, 12:41 PM :big_smile:
bigandrew Posts: 5,146 Joined: 2002/10/21	2005/10/26, 01:10 PM :laugh: -------------- Friends don't let friends squat high... People don't reach thier true potental, only those who seek it.