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From great to dumped in 24 hours...

thejafe Posts: 7 Joined: 2003/02/19	2005/05/04, 12:36 AM So the other night I'm supposed to go on a date with this girl I met at work (she was a customer) I'm 26 and she's 23. Anyway, I arrive at her place and she invites me. We have dinner, chat for awhile and then we end up on her couch watching movies and before you know it we are making out for 2 hours. I end up staying there until 3:30am. The next day she tells me that she's going into the city to "visit a friend" and I beleive her because I am going into the city myself to visit a friend. So she calls me the next day (today) and we are chatting it up and Im feeling like wow I really like this girl and then out of the blue she drops the bomb. She tells me that she "wasnt totally honest" the other night. Turns out her "friend" is really her BOYfriend and that she doesnt think that its fair to him if she continues to see me. By now Im TOTALLY confused and NOT very happy. While I was at her place she had told me that she was "kinda" seeing a guy but that it was "as good as over"... and she repated that it was over 3 times. So she pulls a complete 180 and now Im left holding the bag. I feel used. Here I thought it was the GUY that was supposed to be the asshole! I love relationships.
princesslodgey Posts: 1,748 Joined: 2004/02/21	2005/05/04, 03:29 AM Sorry to hear about that. At least you found out now, before you got too involved, and you don't have to waste any more time on her.
asimmer Posts: 8,201 Joined: 2003/01/07	2005/05/04, 08:46 AM Relationships in your twenties are complicated - you want to be faithful, but you still want to play the field. many people are 'temporarily' broken up with their boyfriend/girlfriend, and use the chance to try out someone new, but people break up and get back together a lot. As princess said, at least you found out now and you won't waste your time on her. Find someone who is definitely single, and not on the rebound, it will be much more stable. -------------- Vitality shows not only in the ability to persist but the ability to start over. - F. Scott Fitzgerald
sstump1 Posts: 1,227 Joined: 2005/03/20	2005/05/04, 10:12 AM thejafe...those were the days...me and my wife have been married for 10 years...together since my senior year in high school (in our early 30's now). Seemed like we were breaking up every other week back then...no wait...we were breaking up every other week. You know the greatest thing about it...I didn't understand her and her reasoning then and I still don't to this day and I don't expect to. I think I had a point in here somewhere...or maybe not...but you get the idea.
bigandrew Posts: 5,146 Joined: 2002/10/21	2005/05/04, 12:12 PM leave a dead rabbit on her car...that show her -------------- " The only true eye, is your minds eye"- plato
sstump1 Posts: 1,227 Joined: 2005/03/20	2005/05/04, 01:53 PM Should he boil it first bigandrew?
	2005/05/04, 04:30 PM lol Andrew ..... thejafe that sucks.....I personally can't stand women like that...at least you found out now before it got any more serious....
bigandrew Posts: 5,146 Joined: 2002/10/21	2005/05/04, 08:22 PM Or make a fake want ad in paper with her name and number on it.....advertising for "extra fun" -------------- " The only true eye, is your minds eye"- plato
	2005/05/05, 08:57 PM good ol'....ordering 10 pizzas with everything on them to her home/work address works fine too.....
princesslodgey Posts: 1,748 Joined: 2004/02/21	2005/05/06, 04:58 AM Horse's head on her bed?
sstump1 Posts: 1,227 Joined: 2005/03/20	2005/05/06, 11:26 AM princess...that's just weird...what would make someone think that. :big_smile:
	2005/05/07, 04:48 AM Godfather famous scene?
Artemis-75 Posts: 208 Joined: 2005/03/25	2005/05/08, 06:42 PM Yup - a horses head in the bed - classic Godfather. That'd teach anyone a lesson! Good one, Princess! :angry:The evil protective lot that we are jumping to defend the honour of thejafe! :angry: :laugh:
	2005/05/08, 06:50 PM yeah i hate it when that happens. the horse wasn't happy either. -------------- Dyslexics of the world...UNTIE!!!!!! Charlie
GOWAR Posts: 361 Joined: 2001/10/24	2005/05/09, 12:25 AM I hate to hear, when men have to meet such women. Find her boyfriend tell him what happened, that way she's dropped faster than a hot potato with no floor to catch her. Or just say F**k it completely and forget the whole thing.
Koi_Saisei Posts: 70 Joined: 2005/03/11	2005/05/10, 05:27 AM Theres no point in getting revenge. Unless they "really" deserve it. In this circumstance, I'd leave it.
bigandrew Posts: 5,146 Joined: 2002/10/21	2005/05/15, 03:06 PM call her and say you found out you have herpies......and to keep an eye out for cold sores:laugh: -------------- " The only true eye, is your minds eye"- plato
mariebrom Posts: 15 Joined: 2004/09/17	2005/05/23, 09:57 AM Dude it's happened to me at least 3 times. You look a guy straight in the eye and ask him if he's married and he says no..... then a few months down the line you end up wasting perfectly good drinks because you're pouring them over their heads. And storming out of restaurants with an empty stomach because these things never seem to happen after desert. So this time I've learned the hard way. Wait till you've finished your food first. Order the most expensive bottle of wine (preferably something that stains like red) and then pour it over his head and storm out while he gets the bill. I wouldn't go any further with revenge than that - I believe in karma
kqstdcj963 Posts: 36 Joined: 2005/05/03	2005/05/23, 02:53 PM HE wants her,but she wants him, and he wants someone else you just can't win!! Isn't that how the song goes? Try being married for 15 years and have her leave because she cant keep her legs closed! And to think I was faithfull the whole time. So now my life is ruined because of her. I did not expect to be single @ 40 yrs old. Oh well, glue the heart back together and move on. Gotta love it !!! -Dave -------------- \" Out of suffering is born strength; Only through pain and deprivation does a human heart become as strong as steel.\"