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jonnnyko Posts: 108 Joined: 2004/01/19	2005/05/24, 02:04 AM okay so my girlfriend and a are soon to be celebrating our one year anniversary and i'm looking to do something really special but not sure what to do. this is my first real long term relationship and want to start off with a great first step on this whole anniversary thing so i am asking for all of you ladies to lend me some womanly advice on how i can really wow her. -------------- Jonathan *** Nothing Is Real but Pain Now ***
krystal_reeves Posts: 33 Joined: 2005/05/18	2005/05/24, 03:48 AM Don't do anything stupid and like take her to the movies.. do something that involves quality time.... Show her how u feel about her... maybe a nice romantic candlelit picnic or something... you know it doesn't have to cost very much.. just be a gentleman .... open doors for her..compliment her... we really like that stuff... just don't try tooo hard.
	2005/05/24, 04:16 AM Surprise her with something she likes....it can be something sentimental by taking her to where you met and having a picnic....or doing something she enjoys....then take her out to a fancy restaraunt.....dress up...no jeans/sneakers....etc...research good restraunts in the area......and ofcourse buy her a dozen of red roses....although showing how much you like/love her is great....do tell her as well....
leslieherr Posts: 298 Joined: 2002/08/09	2005/05/24, 06:23 AM Wow menace, you give great advice.. Leslie
jonnnyko Posts: 108 Joined: 2004/01/19	2005/05/24, 01:12 PM yea so right now i was thinking i'll take her back to this little fancy italian resturant were i took her on our first date, its this really nice dress up place with amazing food, and the gentlemen stuff like you were talkin about menace was a given, thats one of the only things i did learn from my father. and i was thinkin buying her a dozen lilies or somethin other then roses and should i give her the gift i got her there or later that night? -------------- Jonathan *** Nothing Is Real but Pain Now ***
	2005/05/24, 08:54 PM If she likes a certain flower other than roses...then by all means give her that.....if she likes humor then give her some witty card....(it would be nice if you wrote out the card in your own words)...If you got her a gift...maybe a nice pair of earings or a pendant/bracelet....then you can either give it to her before the meal arrives at the restaraunt or later that night when you get back to your house...
krystal_reeves Posts: 33 Joined: 2005/05/18	2005/05/27, 05:44 AM wow.. menace3000... it would be great if more men in this world were more like you. Anyways, that is some great advice.
	2005/05/27, 07:26 AM :) glad to help.....
leslieherr Posts: 298 Joined: 2002/08/09	2005/05/27, 10:14 AM I like roses but I love it when my husband gets me flowers of any other kind. Roses are way over done and it looks like more thought has gone in to it when you get something different. Unless of course she really loves roses. Leslie
	2005/05/27, 06:21 PM Bouquets work well also....get to pick and choose different flowers...and the florist puts it all together nicely....
Reddy Posts: 597 Joined: 2003/09/11	2005/05/27, 08:26 PM if you are giving jewelery make sure it isn't in a box that looks like a ring box - if it is then she will think enagament ring & be disappointed in the gift unless it is one -------------- Reddy All people smile in the same language
thosecrazysims Posts: 157 Joined: 2003/09/22	2005/05/30, 12:30 PM Very True Reddy! Great Advice Menace! Jonnnyko you will do great! :)
babydolwv Posts: 80 Joined: 2005/02/23	2005/06/03, 08:51 AM jonnny, taking her to the place where you all went for your first date is a great place to take her... I love it when my husband doest that stuff... -------------- God wont give you anything you cant handle!
gangstershoes Posts: 641 Joined: 2005/05/27	2005/06/03, 11:24 AM menace beat me to all the advice. only thing I can really say is pay attention to what makes her tick. her interests, hobbies, etc. don't make it obvious you are paying attention to it, and then surprise her with something along those lines. you can rekindle the old times with her, or show her a fresh new side of your relationship doing an activity that has never been experienced before. don't overdo it though, because you don't want to come across as a puppy begging for attention. good luck.