• FreeTrainers.com Forums
• All Else Lounge
• skinny guy wants a girl

Group: All Else Lounge

skinny guy wants a girl

febreze Posts: 93 Joined: 2005/05/05	2005/06/02, 09:13 PM hey, im postin a question not really for myself, but for someone else (my brothers friend) who hopefully will read it soon. The thing is he likes this girl from work, but it too scared she wont like him cuz he thinks hes too skinny and not good looking. He's pretty skinny, aint got much fat on him, and he thinks girls aren't attracted to that. And about the good lookin thing, well my bro has a friend and she once said she thought he's good looking (although he dosent believe it). He's got really low self esteem, can anyone help him out? And can any women out there explain how u arent gonna single out a guy just cuz he's skinny, and say whether u prefer skinny or plump guys? thanks
Herewithin Posts: 23 Joined: 2004/09/04	2005/06/03, 06:53 AM Unfortunatly attraction is down to personal preference. When I have seen a hot girl and found them attractive many a time my mates havent thought the same, so this girl may or may not find you brothers friend attractive depending on what she looks for in a bloke. Certainly a good body would make him more attractive but to who? This girl might not find toned/muscle/stocky guys attractive, I met this girl once and got chatting and she actually didnt find a six pack a turn on, she preferred guys with a bit more blubber on them, apparently its more cuddle-able!:) Either way, he wont know until he asks, its better to ask and find out than spend the rest of his life pondering...
babydolwv Posts: 80 Joined: 2005/02/23	2005/06/03, 08:19 AM well honestly the thing that attracts me is there eyes... Can see just about anything in a persons eyes.... the body to me isnt important to me, cause uI have know alot of guys that were "good looking" but once you got to know them they are jerks and to me that makes them not to so good looking! but I do agree with herewithin... its all in a person opinion.... I know not every girl thinks like me... So my advice to him is to tell her and see how things go from there... cant hurt to let her know! I know its not much for advice, but he wont know anything if someone doesnt say something! -------------- God wont give you anything you cant handle!
bigandrew Posts: 5,146 Joined: 2002/10/21	2005/06/03, 09:36 PM girls always say eyes or personaility.........but vin deasel and brad pitt? I doubt they liek them for their personality -------------- " The only true eye, is your minds eye"- plato
babydolwv Posts: 80 Joined: 2005/02/23	2005/06/03, 11:03 PM roflmao bigandrew... I never said I dont like the way guys look, but us girls can only judge those guy on there looks cause we never get to know there real personality anyhow ... lol -------------- God wont give you anything you cant handle!
hecdarec Posts: 2,457 Joined: 2003/12/16	2005/06/04, 06:00 AM Tell your friend to get in the gym and go see a therapist. -------------- I was 17 years old the first time my father told me he loved me.
febreze Posts: 93 Joined: 2005/05/05	2005/06/04, 06:41 AM well i dont think he can get into a gym or see a therapist, he is my brothers housemate, and my brother once told me his work hours are crazy, he has to work at really random times, and is hardly ever home, so i doubt he has time to go to a gym. and i doubt he can afford to see a therapist atm...i mean i've seen teh house they live in, its BS, theyre pretty young so pretty much always broke. anyway, i doubt readin thru the posts so far would help him much lol. any women who prefer skinny to well...'plump'?
hecdarec Posts: 2,457 Joined: 2003/12/16	2005/06/04, 09:06 AM Here is some good advice for your brother's, housemate's, cousin's friend. Tell him to be himself and talk to the chick. If she doesnt like him, her loss, move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Rejection is a part of life. If he is not happy with himself he has two choices: change or live in misery. What more do you want us to say? Ofcourse there are women who like skinny guys, there are also women who like fat guys, bald guys, tall guys, short guys, stupid guys, smart guys, handsome guys, ugly guys, blondes, brunettes, redheads, etc......
Apneac Posts: 31 Joined: 2005/06/01	2005/06/04, 09:45 AM I'm married to a skinny guy. He's a hottie in my book! He does not have big bulging muscles, but you can see he's toned and has more of a straight, slim build. It depends on the guy, in my opinion. What I do know, is that "overall" women find my husband very attractive and I've had some brushes with having to make sure they back off! In short, I don't think your friend should worry about being "skinny" and I can't help but wonder if "skinny" is the right adjective to use when one, in fact, has a "slim" build. -------------- ~ Apneac When I die, I want to go peacefully like my grandfather did, in his sleep ... not screaming like the passengers in his car.
chloetinders Posts: 5 Joined: 2005/05/15	2005/06/04, 12:18 PM i personally prefer slimmer (u could say skinnier) guys to big beefy guys. thats just my opinion, every woman is diffrent. Ur bro's friend should just talk 2 the girl, if hes a nice guy, chances are she'll really like him. :)
febreze Posts: 93 Joined: 2005/05/05	2005/06/04, 12:20 PM er...ok hec, sorry....
bigandrew Posts: 5,146 Joined: 2002/10/21	2005/06/04, 06:12 PM look at ashton kutcher and tobey ...( spiderman dude)......they skinny girls like them...although could be the millons of dollars too. -------------- gravity is not a law, only a obstacle