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feeling uncomfortable...

pretykym
pretykym
Posts: 10
Joined: 2004/02/14
United States
2005/11/22, 01:46 PM
My best friends live in boyfriend/babys daddy left for Iraq about 1 mo ago. Since I was going to school in the evenings, I agreed to move in and help with the 11 mo old baby during the day. The deal was no rent, no bills, she pays for groceries, and 1,000 a mo supplement. Not to bad right?

I just found out that she is a member of Adult friend Finders.com and is attempting to find female partners to "play with" while her man is away. Nothing against bi sexuals, but I didn't know any of this before I moved in. I also read a dialog she left open on my computer where she was chatting with her man in Iraq. It was very lewd and very explicit, things they wanted to do, with there baby in the car while driving home from the airport. Her BF asked if she had spoken to me about joining there little couple and all the things he wanted to do to me while she watched. I am a little freaked out don't know how to confront her. Does anyone have any advise? I am feeling really awkward. I feel horrible about posting this, but I have no idea whoelse to ask for advise. Thanks guys!
gangstershoes
gangstershoes
Posts: 641
Joined: 2005/05/27
United States
2005/11/22, 02:18 PM
You don't have to confront her if she is going to bring up the topic. That's a perfect excuse to move out.

"Her BF asked if she had spoken to me about joining there little couple" ....."I am a little freaked out don't know how to confront her. "
Kalanchoe
Kalanchoe
Posts: 400
Joined: 2003/02/18
United Kingdom
2005/11/23, 09:04 AM
is your issue her that you want to stay, help out and also the perks, but now with all this, you're in an uncomfortable situation? I'd confront her, make it clear that you're there as a friend to help out with the baby, nothing more.
Honeydipdream69
Honeydipdream69
Posts: 28
Joined: 2005/11/29
United States
2005/11/30, 01:37 PM
If it don't come up don't bring it up. You should start worrying when she does bring this to your attention. If she does just tell her straight up what you will and will not do.