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Unhappy Girlfriend

Honeydipdream69
Honeydipdream69
Posts: 28
Joined: 2005/11/29
United States
2005/11/30, 11:44 AM
I recently broke up with my boyfriend. We met at the school I attend. He worked as a counselor and I'm a student, which is against regulations. So we kept our relationship a secret. Eventually he got fired for losing his temper on the job with another employee. We still kept seeing each other after the fact. However, he stopped calling me and I did all of the calling. When we did talk over the phone he acted like he was bored. I invited him to come visit me but he keeps saying he will but he never does. I was tired of his lack of effort in the relationship, so I cashed it in. When I stopped calling after a while he called me and accused me of not caring and not loving him. I don't get it. When I did express my interest he pushed me away. When I go away he goes crazy. I don't know what he is trying to do? I don't want to get back together with him but I want insight on this behavior so I can understand this kind of man.
2005/11/30, 12:12 PM
I don't mean to be flippant but dump him. You shouldn't have boyfriend problems the way you look.

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Sometimes life is like herding cats.


Charlie
Honeydipdream69
Honeydipdream69
Posts: 28
Joined: 2005/11/29
United States
2005/11/30, 01:38 PM
Thanks. Now I don't feel guilty for dumping him.
Illinifirefly
Illinifirefly
Posts: 36
Joined: 2005/10/31
United States
2005/12/01, 03:04 PM
People are fickle.. :(

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I started out with nothing, and I still have most of it left...
gangstershoes
gangstershoes
Posts: 641
Joined: 2005/05/27
United States
2005/12/05, 01:25 PM
charlie is always a sucker for a stripper outfit. :)
Both men and women suffer from always wanting what they can't have, and taking for granted what they do have. Just find the middle ground and don't be too clingy next time in the early stages of the relationship.
good luck.
2005/12/05, 08:07 PM
well said gangstershoes lol