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I Need To Say How I Really Feel

Honeydipdream69 Posts: 28 Joined: 2005/11/29	2005/11/30, 02:01 PM I have a hard time being assertive. When I start dating someone who turns out to be someone I prefer not to be with I feel guilty for telling them how I feel and I fall back into the trap of sticking out with them for the sake of not hurting their feelings. I need to stop feeling guilty. How do I stop feeling this way?
CristalBelle Posts: 1,389 Joined: 2003/06/27	2005/11/30, 02:05 PM Sounds like you are a people pleaser, and dislike confrontation. I'm the same way. The only thing that makes me feel any better is thinking to myself "Not everyone is going to like me, and it is humanly impossible to make EVERYONE happy, but at least one of those people should be me." You can't please the world,but you can do what makes you happy.
Honeydipdream69 Posts: 28 Joined: 2005/11/29	2005/11/30, 02:20 PM "BUT AT LEAST ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE SHOULD BE ME". I LIKE THAT.
gangstershoes Posts: 641 Joined: 2005/05/27	2005/12/08, 03:57 PM do they make a "Being an @ss for dummies" book? :)
bigandrew Posts: 5,146 Joined: 2002/10/21	2005/12/08, 04:01 PM are you a stripper? -------------- Friends don't let friends squat high... People don't reach thier true potental, only those who seek it.