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2003/03/05, 11:03 AM
howdy again , i think of myself as a shy person at times and intimidated by some people, i like this girl, who's a cheerleader and a girls wrestler , i met here when i wrestled last year and i play football , well anyway everytime we talk the conversation is mutually great, but it' s usually only comfortable talking to her when we're alone but thats rare, because she's always around many of my team mates and her friends, also how can i tell if she's sexually attracted to me? we both have the same lunch and usually no one is sitting next to her but the last time i came and sat down one of the older guys (1 year older) interrupted our conversation and said something mean and making me feel uncomfortable, so i havent ate lunch with her since. But later when we got to talking some more , the next couple days after i bought her some chocolates she told me she liked and got hugged, but any women would do that right? i havent talked to her since that day which has been like 1.5 weeks she was sick last week, what should be my next move? should i care what my team mates say? how do i know if and when she sexually attracted to me??
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2003/03/05, 02:10 PM
yes, i definately agree with ravenwolf. you'll regret alot more not asking her out than being turned down by her.
and even if shes not sexually attracted to you, she'll respect you for your courage and the fact that you made the first move and risked your ego.
go for it and good luck!
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2003/03/05, 03:47 PM
Ok, when I was in school, I was king of shy! I make up for it now, believe me. Any way, what I would do here and what I used to do is get her phone #. That is like a test.If she gives you her # that means she's a little interested, get it? The rest will fall in to place through a conversation on the phone. WHAT EVER YOU DO, don't ask her on a date on the phone. Hope this helps Nat.
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Nothing is too small to know, and nothing is too big to attempt!
Ivan Montreal Canada
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