Group: All Else Lounge

All Else Lounge
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fuzion007
fuzion007
Posts: 5
Joined: 2001/04/23
Canada
2003/04/06, 12:48 AM
hi everyone, this is my first post, so i hope i can get some good advice! i have a really hard time talking to females. whenever i try to talk to girls, i get all nervous, my heart starts beating faster and faster, and if i do talk to girls, my words don't come out clear and it seems like i have a speech impediment. i was just wondering if there is any way i can improve my confidence so i can talk to girls. thanx!
gwindalyn
gwindalyn
Posts: 434
Joined: 2003/01/15
United States
2003/04/06, 08:25 AM
I'm assuming you are a guy. :) All I can say is just do it. Girls aren't much different than in with being shy. You might find that they like you and are just as nervous as you are.

Just be yourself. Don't try to impress them. Don't be overbearing or desperate. Just be a friend. If something more is meant to happen, it will.

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~Jennifer

http://www.gwindalyn.com
Moonaria
Moonaria
Posts: 28
Joined: 2003/01/12
United States
2003/04/14, 08:18 PM
Just smile and remember they probably feel exactly the same as you do. After all girls are just people too. When you approach a girl have something t6o say, your at the Mall and she's looking over a CD rack say something about a band. Where ever you are you can always find a topic for conversation, likely she'll responde an next thing you know you'll both be talking about something you enjoy. And remember she likely feels the same way you do.... yes girls get nervious too.

Moonaria


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The word never isn't in my vocabulary. I don't know how to give up, and I always think big.
dpking44
dpking44
Posts: 470
Joined: 2002/08/07
United States
2003/04/15, 06:49 AM
Don't worry fuzion, we all have problems talking to women. Especially the babes. We tend to fall at least two wrungs on the evolutionary ladder when a gorgeous woman actually talks to us. lol
skinnyrobin
skinnyrobin
Posts: 224
Joined: 2002/05/10
Germany
2003/04/15, 02:47 PM
...and then we find ourselves talking to her tits and get slapped in the face lol