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jimsmith6 Posts: 33 Joined: 2003/10/18	2003/12/29, 08:46 PM okay im 16, im a male, im 5'8'' and i weight 135lbs i am skinny i have a little muscle on me not very much. I was wondering all of the women on this site if u could help me out or the men if they know from experience.... do girls like guys who are cut and have muscle defenition of a guy who is big and not very cut but can lift a lot.. and whichi will take longer to get results 1- a getting cut stage wit low fat high protein diet and light weights with more reps 2-a high calorie diet and high protien and heaavy weights with less reps beacause i am in the middle of deciding which look i should go for and which will have the best euslts the quickest and which girls like the best thank everyone for the advice!!!! -jimmy
azredhead57 Posts: 1,651 Joined: 2003/04/11	2004/01/02, 03:38 PM I could be wrong, but here is what I think. Girls who go for you only because you look a certain way arent really the girls you want are they? The majority of women might look at you because of your body, but they will pay attention to you because of your personality, intelligence, self assurance and ability to carry on a conversation. Do what makes you feel the best and let the girls notice you for you. -------------- ~Victoria~ ...Do not be discouraged; everyone who got where he is, started where he was.--anon ...There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.--Beverly Sills
eirc_h Posts: 16 Joined: 2003/04/05	2004/01/05, 07:19 PM hay man it dont realy matter what the gril thinks what maters is what you think and how you feel so i say go for it man good luck
ChimChim Posts: 20 Joined: 2003/02/25	2004/01/06, 12:13 AM the correct answer is...you gotta be cut to hell
zgambitx Posts: 5 Joined: 2004/01/03	2004/01/06, 08:07 AM I'm not a girl, but I think girls like different body types, just like they pay attention to certain parts of your body than others. Some girls like BIG men and some like athetic looking ones, some even like thin guys. I think for your weight you should consider packing up some weight. I am 5'8 and 155 and still think im too thin.
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2004/01/07, 12:15 PM jimsmith - Thats not exactly an easy question to answer. Personal preferences vastly differ between everyone, do you prefer blonde or brown hair? Short or long? Does it always make a difference? Probably not. I think what you need to work on is striving towards a fitness goal that makes You happy and You proud of yourself. Your results will in turn reflect inner confidence and that in itself is a very powerful tool for attracting the opposite sex. Good luck
Jdelts Posts: 1,218 Joined: 2003/10/19	2004/01/07, 12:19 PM Excellent answer I_Am-azon. The things people do for attention. Well, if attention is what you want JIMSMITH, then nothing gets more positive attention than confidence...NOT ARROGANCE. -------------- May the lift be with you.
	2004/01/07, 01:19 PM Jimmy, like i told you before. Do the exercise for yourself and get a Ferrarri for the women. -------------- Living well is the best revenge. Charlie
mmaibohm Posts: 1,621 Joined: 2003/09/30	2004/01/07, 02:28 PM I prefer the jeep for the women lol but dont worry what women like. I was the fat kid every one picked on in school! what gets the women is attitude and a little chivalry. Just ask the adorable Mrs. Maibohm lol
temperoath Posts: 14 Joined: 2004/01/05	2004/01/15, 03:50 PM You can be the skinniest man alive...but if you carry yourself like a Mack Truck....they'll flock to you..just don't be intimidated, and dont be cocky...but confident...works everytime bro!
shavondec Posts: 340 Joined: 2003/11/26	2004/01/15, 05:25 PM Well said. I never had one of the overly cute guys. Maybe because my own self-essteem was low. Or, maybe they just seemed arrogant to me. ============ Quoting from azredhead57: I could be wrong, but here is what I think. Girls who go for you only because you look a certain way arent really the girls you want are they? The majority of women might look at you because of your body, but they will pay attention to you because of your personality, intelligence, self assurance and ability to carry on a conversation. Do what makes you feel the best and let the girls notice you for you. ============= -------------- It's not what we eat or drink occasionally, but what we consume on a daily basis that determines our ongoing level o health. formerfatguy.com Not sure of author
onelilhorangi Posts: 42 Joined: 2002/10/31	2004/01/24, 03:13 PM As a 17 yr old girl I would say that girls go for any type. Some girls like their guys skinny. Theres a difference between too skinny and normal. Girls do like a guy that has at least some muscle. You don;t have to be huge. My boyfriend is really skinny. Girls don't like guys that are almost as skinny as the girl. They like a guy who is alittle bit bigger than them.. its a female thing. But who knows, there are girls who go out with really skinny guys. Sometimes it just doesnt matter, as long as you like that person looks don't really matter.
dhurt55 Posts: 93 Joined: 2004/01/02	2004/01/25, 10:42 AM jimsmith....I am also a 16 year old male and let me tell you...if you get a girl because of the way you look...she's not for you! I personally, would rather have someone that is interested in me for me...not the way i look. If a girl won't give u the time of day simply because of the way you look or something...then honestly, would u want to be with her??? I can tell you right now it is way more fun if you can relate to a girl mentally, intellectually, etc. than if you are just together because she is fiiiine and has the personality of rock! -------------- "Without Pains, there come no Gains" -Benjamin Franklin
bigandrew Posts: 5,146 Joined: 2002/10/21	2004/01/25, 01:10 PM well if ur 5'8" and 135lbs i think ur pretty cut that what u give ur self creadit for.....i meanu can't have much body fat on u at all ..........skiny guys can get cut easier.... btu big guys can left big weights and big muscles and aren't cut.........big guys spend theirs lioves trying to " cut up" while smaller guys spend theirs lives trying to get bigger.....truth is either one is never happy lol i always wanna be more cut, skinny guys always wanna be bigger lol just the way it is.........liek everyone said every person is different and has different tastes, tall guys shorts guys, big guys lil guys everyone is different everoen has different tastes............. i learned long ago that if u treat girls with respect, be nice open a door for them , talk to them, listen to them, treat them with respect they will respect u alot more thana cocky guy with 20in biceps -------------- ---andrew.......adversity causes some to break, but others to break records! LEAVE YOUR EGO AT THE DOOR!!
dhurt55 Posts: 93 Joined: 2004/01/02	2004/01/25, 02:03 PM bigandrew knows his stuff! -------------- "Without Pains, there come no Gains" -Benjamin Franklin