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bigandrew
bigandrew
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Joined: 2002/10/21
United States
2004/07/04, 03:32 PM
Ok to set up the story and , to make it short......There was a girl in my chemesrty class, that sat 2 or 3 sets from me, we never talked much, cause of class, and she was usually there late and junk. This past semester she was in my geo2000 class, and we wound up setting next to each other, we eventually talked to each other, made friends and junk, just bsed and junk. Before school let out, I slid her a piece of paper that just said keep in touch and my phone #.......she did the same thing, and she waited for me after class since I wasn't done with my exame, we hugged each other and I said" have agood safe summer" she said the same thing back.

I eventually called her and we went out and saw a movie and junk. That night she said she was gonna be going out of town to mexico for a church thing for like 2 weeks.

But I forgot she was gonna go out of town. Cause I tried calling her a couple of times (3 or 4 throughout that week) but it was her cell, and it was turned off.

Anyways she got back or whatever I guess, only reason I know is cause her cell is back on, anyways she never called me back or anything. We work odd hours between us so its hard for her to get a hold of me and vice versa. So I cal today, just to see how her trip went and junk, and a dude answers the phone and was like .....
"eh hello" I said is "Heather there?"
he said "naw, this is her b/f"
I was like "um o?k "
I herd what sounded like talking and laughing in the back ground, so I Just hung up.......I don't think I did anything worng myself...but I could be wrong? I thought she seemed nice and junk , cause the few times we did talkon phone it was like for an hour , I thought about seeing eventually if she would like to date and junk, but I guess not now. Only reason why I called 2 days in a row, wa scause she said somthing to me on our last "date" that she wanted to see spiderman 2?

what did I do?

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phimugirl1
phimugirl1
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Joined: 2004/06/22
United States
2004/07/04, 05:47 PM
I'm sure you did nothing at all wrong. I'm sorry that things didn't work out between the two of you. Too bad she didn't answer the phone rather than the guy. Maybe she would have told you that she'd call you later. Then, she might have given some type of explanation.

Have you seen Spiderman 2 yet? We went to see it earlier today and it rocked!!

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azredhead57
azredhead57
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2004/07/04, 06:09 PM
That sucks. I don't think you did anything wrong. NOthing infuriates me more than people who are not HONEST! What is wrong with just telling the truth these days??? If she had just told you that she had a boyfriend you wouldn't have had to go through all of this. I wouldn't waste anymore time on someone who wasn't honest with me.

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hecdarec
hecdarec
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2004/07/04, 06:53 PM
I would try to call her again and see what the deal is. Maybe she just needs a little something on the side, you could be her sugar daddy.

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David1201086
David1201086
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United States
2004/07/04, 06:57 PM
you dont sound confident enough. Lay the pimp hand down! :cool:
Vedakathryn
Vedakathryn
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United States
2004/07/04, 09:05 PM
That sounds like such a bummer phone call, but maybe (?) someone was messing with her phone answering it when you called and it may not of been even her boyfriend and that was why there was laughing? You said she has your number, too, I guess I would wait and see then if she calls. Your number should of shown up on her caller ID on the cell. Sorry you had to go through that...

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the_cupcake
the_cupcake
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Joined: 2004/06/16
Philippines
2004/07/04, 09:08 PM
girls are funny most of the time. ya know? They're odd and can be cruel mostly. I'd suggest you call her and talk to her.

If you think she's playing with you, then let it go. Lots of girls around that are way nicer :)

oh and yeah, maybe hec is right. Maybe you have the sugar daddy thing going on. :big_smile:

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fsdsk
fsdsk
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Joined: 2003/11/30
United States
2004/07/04, 11:36 PM
She will be back
millenia
millenia
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Joined: 2004/04/03
United Kingdom
2004/07/05, 04:57 PM
some girlies are just meanies but most are good. You done nothing wrong.
david_s81
david_s81
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Joined: 2004/04/09
United States
2004/07/05, 10:38 PM
How long did you wait to call?? Sometimes you can call too early and scare off a beautiful baby that's down to party. Two days is enough not to look anxious, but I think 3 days is kinda money. 3 points... anyone?

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R_Mitty
R_Mitty
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Joined: 2003/08/29
Canada
2004/07/06, 03:57 AM
lol,lovin the Swingers qoute

vegas baby