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dont turn on bf ne more

Nicole2004 Posts: 20 Joined: 2003/02/06	2003/03/05, 08:26 AM have such a serious problem. I don't turn my boyfriend on ne more. He tells me what he wants but I'm just not sure as what to do. Although I am in love with him and feel very comfortable with him. Sex has just never been as easy thing for me to even talk about. And now that I am engaging in it and he wants different things I'm totally lost. He says that he wants me to "take control" Im so confused!! HELP!!
rev8ball Posts: 3,081 Joined: 2001/12/27	2003/03/05, 11:34 AM Please post only once......... -------------- Michael "Trample the weak; hurdle the dead!"
Nicole2004 Posts: 20 Joined: 2003/02/06	2003/03/05, 11:49 AM Sorry, I didnt know I wasnt supposed to. I just want as much advice as possible. And didnt know if everyone looked into every forum
pj Posts: 9 Joined: 2002/07/03	2003/03/20, 08:43 PM if your really comfortable with him why wont you ??
xSTALLiONx Posts: 1 Joined: 2003/02/14	2003/03/24, 09:18 PM most guys are pretty simple.. when sex feels good.. moan.. be loud etc.. taking control i'm guessing is YOU wanting sex.. not him.. (that could be hormonal if you don't desire sex much..) if he wants more out of sex.. Use Kazaa to download a porn.. Learn to deep throat.. get ideas.. etc.. learn how to put on the seductive look .. etc etc etc..
Kalanchoe Posts: 400 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/03/25, 10:39 AM Erm, stalion, what about what SHE wants and what feels good for HER? I'm not having a go at men or owt, but there is more to a healthy sex life than the woman behaving like a porn star. -------------- *My body only feels good when it burns! *Little voice telling you to quit? Put your fingers in your ears! *"Life shrinks or grows in proportion to one's courage"
ht Posts: 20 Joined: 2003/04/05	2003/04/10, 09:06 PM It takes a while to get really, truly comfortable with sex, and since you are only sixteen I can see why you are not. BUT-since you are already doing it anyway make sure you are protecting yourselves!! Ok-to answer your question, now, when your boyfriend says he wants you to "take control" I think he just wants you to innitiate sex every now and then (which I am assuming you don't do now) You don't have to do anything you are not comfortable with and DON'T do anything just because he wants to!! (as far as the porn is concerned, you would probably get in lots of trouble for various reasons, being 16, so I would stay away from that for a while) anyway hope i helped good luck
BlakeyBoyR Posts: 14 Joined: 2003/04/14	2003/06/09, 01:34 AM Sweety why not ask him exactly what he means ? If youre comfortable HAVING sex with him, you should be able to TALK about sex with him. If youre not comfortable talking about it with him maybe you should ask yourself why ? I dont mean that to sound horrible, but sounds to me like maybe you're not ready for this yet. PM me if you need to talk :)