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Driving me nuts...

millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/09/18, 07:59 AM Ok this is a bit weird but here we go...one of my good friends..well at least i think she is. Right now she is getting on my last wit. We have been friends for the past 2 years, adn form the beginning i knew her nature. She doesn't like to talk to many people and usually has a bad opinion about everyone. She likes to make fun of others for her own security but right now she has started on me. She calls me fat when im a size 10 and although she is about a size 14-16. I have never called her any names and she always talks about loosing weight. I have been seeing this nice guy for about a week and she calls him a dork and stuff but when he came to sit with us for a drink she was all nice to him. The worst thing that made me mad was that she has started to hang about with my ex boyfriend. She also started to tell me and others in the college everyones secrets..., i don't know whats going on in her head. I have a funny feeling she is jealous of me, and i think it's driving her nuts because i haven't broke down yet..She has my ex wrapped round her little finger, he buys everything for her, although she has a boyfriend...i really don't know what to do, so many time i've cried in my bed because of this..:(
fsdsk Posts: 959 Joined: 2003/11/30	2004/09/18, 09:05 AM I would evaluate why you consider her a friend. Everything that friendship is based on doesn't seem to be there. My opinion of course is based soley on your post.
DaniDIEt Posts: 93 Joined: 2004/07/13	2004/09/18, 09:47 AM If I was in that situation, I would either drop her like a bag of dirty underwear or have some fun with it like taking some jabs at her. It may not be a healthy way to deal with it but it could be fun. If she is jealous, then it would be quite easy to hurt her feelings. Of course the healthy way to deal with it is just to confront her. Ask why she has said this or done that. I wouldn't expect a mature answer so be prepared for attitude. Just remember that you shouldn't allow her to hurt your feelings. Your the only one that can control how you feel about a jab from her. Take it for what it is. Childish. I learned this the hard way until I removed the toxic people from my life. And that wasn't easy.
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/09/19, 03:11 PM It is Chidlish and I know what i have to do in the end...I just wish she would change but i guess wishing isn't as good as it happening thanks guys, i guess i just needed a second opinion. :love:
firemansam Posts: 147 Joined: 2004/08/20	2004/09/20, 03:44 AM Wait till she says something mean then quickly backhand her with your new muscles screaming BIATCH
bigandrew Posts: 5,146 Joined: 2002/10/21	2004/09/20, 12:36 PM Give her a good @$$ whipping, like in fight club. Sounds like she needs one. -------------- if you want sympathy......from me...in a dictionary look between symphony and syphillis.......there you\'ll find it!
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/09/20, 12:39 PM Lol i wa sin college today and she told everyone we have fallen out. i ended up eating lunch by myself today...my temper is at blood red people.:angry:
bigandrew Posts: 5,146 Joined: 2002/10/21	2004/09/20, 12:45 PM hook her up with your ex, give her "somthing " to "do",that'll keep her away from you. -------------- if you want sympathy......from me...in a dictionary look between symphony and syphillis.......there you\'ll find it!
jonathanweaver Posts: 576 Joined: 2004/06/14	2004/09/20, 01:46 PM Take her to Jerry Springer. Then get the ex-boyfriend and some others to go on the show with you. Or Dr. Phil, if you prefer the nice, mature route. -------------- I will never grow up, just old. Jonathan
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/09/21, 02:52 PM Sounds like a plan...im not sure why she's like this...i guess some people are just meanies..