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Having a Bisexual Relationship

paintballhottie
paintballhottie
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2004/04/28, 10:42 PM
Hey, I am a bisexual female, and i have a fiance (male) who i have been with for several years now. He knows and understands about me being bi. We have also had a threesome before. I just wanted to say that?:love:
parko03
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2004/04/28, 11:56 PM
You go girl!:love:

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paintballhottie
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2004/04/29, 12:36 PM
Yeah, its a fun thing to do. Something that is different i guess. Its also not like i chose to either, there is a story, e-mail me if you wanna hear.
davidov
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2004/04/29, 01:03 PM
I don't think anyone would be offended if you posted the story.:big_smile:

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paintballhottie
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2004/04/29, 02:42 PM
i doubt it too, but i didnt have time this morning, maybe i will later, when i have more time.
bigandrew
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2004/04/30, 01:38 PM
wow a hott bisexual girl.....ones a round here aren't so ....um.... nice looking. lol........i'm with david, i'm not offened....as long as their is details lol:big_smile:

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howdiekat
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2004/04/30, 01:45 PM
andrew you should come hang out around dallas. you'd be pleasantly surprised:)

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Carivan
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2004/04/30, 08:21 PM
Or Montreal, the french girls are just out of this world!

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paintballhottie
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2004/05/01, 02:14 AM
hey howdiekat, where is dallas do you live? i sent you an e-mail but i haven't recieved on back yet. Whats up with that?
:love:
howdiekat
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2004/05/01, 12:28 PM
aww, i never got your email:( s-a-d. i actually live in ft. worth i'm just in north dallas a lot.

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goodoldtex
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2004/05/01, 01:06 PM
Howdies right about some of the girls in dallas/plano there are some crazy biatches....but the majority still seems to be the conservative thought/lifestyle (or so thats what ive seen while bartending)
goodoldtex
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2004/05/01, 01:07 PM
ps howdie, i actually live in plano (just outside dallas as you may know)
howdiekat
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2004/05/01, 01:40 PM
lol tex you should hang out around oak lawn. there's nothing conservative about anything over there:)

i actually have family that lives in plano, and my sister used to live in between addison and plano off the turnpike. if i ever end up working in dallas i want to live out that way too. it's a great area.

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Howdies right about some of the girls in dallas/plano there are some crazy biatches....but the majority still seems to be the conservative thought/lifestyle (or so thats what ive seen while bartending)
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goodoldtex
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2004/05/01, 10:15 PM
Kat....oak lawn....i can't say anything about...everyone knows its reputation....
paintballhottie
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2004/05/02, 12:26 AM
hey, well i live in highland park, we're all so close!
howdiekat
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2004/05/02, 12:49 AM
go hp scots!

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Jdelts
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2004/05/02, 10:16 AM
Be careful bringing a third person into your relationship(male or female). It can cause some waves, even if you are both cool with it. I've seen it too many times in my practice. If it works then good for you.
halfpint116
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2004/05/09, 06:50 PM
Is it a turn on for all guys to see or hear about 2 girls hooking up for sex? LOL The ones I know and talk to think it is.
goodoldtex
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2004/05/09, 11:31 PM
Its a turn off to me...

If its what they want to do, im happy they've found something they want to do...I just don't get turned on by it at all. Thats like getting turned on thinking about my best friend getting hooked up with his girl. Its simply just another relationship/hookup in my mind...

I have no problem with bisexual relations or anything like that...but i couldn't deal with it in my own relationship, i guess thats why its a turnoff almost.
halfpint116
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2004/05/10, 05:55 PM
I'm proud of you tex for being honest. My kinda man!
paintballhottie
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2004/05/10, 08:40 PM
Yeah, that is so true, not all guys are turned on by it. I think there are more females that are turned on by it than men.
howdiekat
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2004/05/10, 09:30 PM
you've got a point there hottie. i think a lot of people would be surprised at the number of women who have "tendencies." i know i've had the s*** shocked out of me many a time.

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princesslodgey
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2004/05/11, 03:35 AM
I think the trichotomy(is that a word?) of gay, straight or bisexual is too simplistic - I think human sexuality is more like a spectrum but women in general are more open to that side of their sexuality.
perfect_elise
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2004/05/11, 06:21 AM
I totally agree with Princesslodgey here. :)
Datdanigirl
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2004/05/11, 10:45 AM
So true.

Not only are women more open to the spectrum, but we have a decided advantage in that the female body really is quite lovely - in all it's shapes and sizes.

:):love:

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I think the trichotomy(is that a word?) of gay, straight or bisexual is too simplistic - I think human sexuality is more like a spectrum but women in general are more open to that side of their sexuality.
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howdiekat
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2004/05/11, 11:15 AM
amen to that:big_smile:

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Quoting from datdanigirl:

So true.

Not only are women more open to the spectrum, but we have a decided advantage in that the female body really is quite lovely - in all it's shapes and sizes.

:):love:


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hecdarec
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2004/05/11, 11:16 AM
I agree. Amen to all bi-sexual women.

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2004/05/11, 11:25 AM
Amen to women in general.:love::cool::love:

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rpacheco
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2004/05/11, 12:56 PM
Charlie, you changed your signature? LOL

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2004/05/11, 12:59 PM
Miss seeing you Robert, Yeah, the new sig explains itself huh??

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rpacheco
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2004/05/11, 01:02 PM
Yup...although, I miss the herding cats bit... :big_smile:

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goodoldtex
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2004/05/11, 03:44 PM
Amen to women...i definitely agree...I've always been the one in my 'group' of friends to speak of sexuality, and being comfortable with your body etc, and i always get yelled at. It sucks...

Its refreshing to see some people that understand sexuality and are more willing to be open about it versus only talking about it behind closed doors...with the window shade drawn...and only by candlelight.
howdiekat
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2004/05/11, 03:45 PM
you forgot "while whispering" tex :big_smile:

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goodoldtex
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2004/05/11, 03:46 PM
ohhh yeah, sure did.
hecdarec
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2004/05/11, 03:59 PM
You forgot "alone"

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mmaibohm
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2004/05/11, 04:04 PM
I love myself aww yeaah lol

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chadk01
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2004/06/06, 04:07 AM
you're 19 and engaged!? why you've got so much time to be single and do what you want with anyone, man or woman! i'm sorry, do what you want, i was just extremely surprised to see someone so young tieing themself down more or less. i can't imagine being engaged a year from now(i'm 18)
howdiekat
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2004/06/06, 09:34 AM
chad, here's an important phrase you should learn: to each his own. sometimes you just know when the person you're with is the one you're supposed to be with forever, regardless of how old you are.

the path you choose for yourself is not going to be the same one that paintball chooses for herself, and i'm sure she doen't consider getting engaged/married "tying herself down" as you put it. if she did i don't think she'd be taking that next step.

if you can't imagine being engaged at 19 that's fine, but don't question the actions of someone who feels they are ready when you don't even know them. it's not very tactful.

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Anni313
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2004/06/06, 09:53 AM
Very well put Howdiekat.

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david_s81
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2004/06/06, 05:00 PM
I like the idea of two chicks hooking up, but only if they're hot.

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paintballhottie
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2004/06/06, 05:26 PM
Thank you howdie, i agree, that is the best way to put it!:)
hecdarec
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2004/06/06, 09:03 PM
I like when two ugly chicks hook up.

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david_s81
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2004/06/07, 01:14 AM
It does take 'em out of the gene pool. Wow, that was pretty insensitive. I'll go run laps now. sorry.

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princesslodgey
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2004/06/07, 03:40 AM
lmao, David!
Datdanigirl
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2004/06/07, 09:36 AM
:laugh::laugh:

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