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sexygrl911 Posts: 23 Joined: 2004/08/09	2004/08/11, 11:16 PM Hey i am 16 years old and i have a question for you guys. Okay i am between 5'10 and 5'11 i weigh between 150-155 lbs i have blue eyes, dark brown hair and long legs...... now recently i was talking to a guy that said that because i didnt weigh 130lbs i wasnt attractive..now i didnt think I was fat but he made it sound like a girl has to be below 130 or guys wont find her attractive...oh and he said that girls with long legs werent pretty either..he made me feel like crap and that i wasnt attractive....:( do all boys think this way??????
Pritchard Posts: 1,212 Joined: 2004/03/02	2004/08/12, 03:17 PM your weight for your height sounds like your hot, so dont worry about it, and blue eyes and brown hair is what i like, so you should tell that dude to funk off. -------------- The curse of the poo foot!!! A.D.F.
bobosensei Posts: 194 Joined: 2004/06/15	2004/08/12, 03:46 PM looks like freetrainers has turned into the love connection! seriously sexygrl911 if a dude has weight requirements he is a worthless piece of crapola! I'm 5'8 and my weight has fluctuated from 125 pounds to 170 (now 146) in my lifetime. Before losing the weight I was comfortable at the 150-155 mark. I always seemed to find men who liked me whatever size I happened to be. It's true that I carry my weight well, but I think you must too because you don't think you are fat and most girls your age no matter how tiny they are are convinced they are blimps. Don't worry about anyone else. Make yourself feel good. The men will flock to you :)
Carivan Posts: 8,542 Joined: 2002/01/20	2004/08/12, 09:34 PM 5'11.......130pounds? pretty sickly looking, I would think! -------------- "A will finds a way, failure is not an option" Ivan carivan@freetrainers.com Montreal Canada
davisp Posts: 313 Joined: 2002/10/26	2004/08/12, 10:12 PM 130lbs? Yikes, too skinny for me. My wife was 160lbs when we got married and she's only 5'8". Her weight was mainly muscle. -------------- Seeking out motivation does not motivate you to seek out results. - Paul Post mark - PaulsMark - Post mark
wasntMe Posts: 19 Joined: 2004/07/28	2004/08/17, 03:41 PM aww nice pep talk there... even i felt the love on that one. haha but ya blue eyes, dark hair, long legs sounds perfect.
dfly411 Posts: 1,352 Joined: 2004/03/04	2004/08/17, 07:18 AM I think they might agree, as do I...the visual one gets in their heads of somebody that is that tall and only weighs that much does make for a "sickly" picture. Not in the ugly way, but in the skin and bones way. Just because Carivan is a mod, doesn't mean he can't have an opinion tmann. Sexygirl, it sounds like the guy is a little over focused on things that are generalized. There are many women that will never be 130 and look damn good.
DanielJLove Posts: 320 Joined: 2004/03/30	2004/08/17, 12:20 PM If they are offended by the idea of 5'11" and 130 lbs possibly being sickly looking they may need to re-evaluate thier definition of healthy. Daniel
oscarg Posts: 198 Joined: 2004/04/05	2004/08/17, 01:32 PM I was 130 @ 5'9 at 1 point. I didn't like it but if a girl had those stats I would consider it good looking/in shape. And Long legs are attractive. Anyone catch Spike 52: Most Irresistible Women? My point exactly.
uluvjenglen Posts: 9 Joined: 2004/08/17	2004/08/17, 01:37 PM WEll sweetie, let me tell you soemthing about men. They talk about the picture but they never get it. I just like you an a very tall girl and at one point in my life i was 140lbs... I was fit (extremely fit) i would spend most of my day training for basketball. I never had a problem getting a guy then and i have gained over 70lbs since and I still dont have a problem getting a man. All men are different some like them "sickly" thin and some like then average, and some like them meaty... its all preference and one immature, internet freak that is probably a 50 year old fat man that masterbates to young girls should not stear your confidence about yourself. I am positive you are a beautiful girl... because I am too!:laugh: brunettes and blue eyes are some beautiful women! always rememeber that and dont let some impotent man tell you different! :big_smile:
chris_192 Posts: 8 Joined: 2004/07/25	2004/08/24, 11:51 PM The thing is you can't make being attractive to the oppisite sex a part time job. Most of the time, men don't let you know it but they feel the exact same way sometimes. "Are my arms big enough?"; "Do you think my stomach is to big?", "Hey do you think that guy is better looking than me?". Just know that they are trying just as hard to measure up, but that doen't give that guy the right to say what he did. Don't give him all the power. Make him measure up for you.
chris_192 Posts: 8 Joined: 2004/07/25	2004/08/25, 12:04 AM Oh and I forgot after you tell him to starve himself and the lack of nutrition dives him nuts , tell him to send you the therapy bills because you will have spent that time making yourself successful (and filthy rich) instead of worring about your self image.
firemansam Posts: 147 Joined: 2004/08/20	2004/08/25, 05:21 AM The only thing i find unattractive in a girl is lack of confidence theres nothing more annoying than being asked every five minutes if you think she is fat. Be happy with yourself, who cares if the sleazy guy has some crazy ideas in his brain. You sound damned fine to me. More fool that guy because if he hadnt been such a loser he might of got your number instead of going home and playing spank the monkey by himself
bobosensei Posts: 194 Joined: 2004/06/15	2004/08/25, 09:56 AM I wonder if this guy knows what a girl who weighs 130 pounds actually looks like at 5'11. I think the average woman is 5'4 or something so 130 pounds is a healthy weight. Plus girls lie about how much they weigh to guys. My brother has a 2 year old and bought him a little truck to ride around in, but the weight limit was like 135 pounds or something. My brother asked me to drive it before Christmas so he could make sure it worked, but at the time I weighed 155ish. When I asked him how I could ride in it without breaking it, he said he thought I weighed about 125 pounds. Plus men have distoreted images in their head about what a woman should look like because of television. A guy that I broke up with was on the internet with a friend of mine and they were talking to girls online. The girl told them she was 5'7 and weighed 100 pounds and he thought that she sounded so hot. I think that sounds disgusting, but that's just me.
	2004/08/25, 10:17 AM How did the car ride go?? -------------- Dances with Buffalos Charlie
padua Posts: 219 Joined: 2003/02/17	2004/08/25, 10:43 AM Why do so many people think that getting approvel from others is going to make them feel nice.. YOU should do and look what makes you feel good who cares that someone whats you a different way..everyone has different body types...The real question is are you happy with yourself?
migo Posts: 20 Joined: 2003/01/06	2004/08/31, 08:28 AM "do all boys think this way??????" No, I think most do it by looks and don't care about the numbers. Only issue might be if he weighs 135 and wants the girl to be less than him. :big_smile:
k1972pat Posts: 154 Joined: 2003/06/10	2004/08/31, 09:57 AM The average model is 5' 8" and weights around 118. I think your weight is just fine. I would think you look very good at that height. My wife is only 5'5" and she weights 155lbs. She weighed 220lbs when she gave birth to our twins, and has lost quite a bit, but still wants to lose at least 15 more lbs. Don't worry about what people think, as long as you are happy and feel good about yourself, that is all that matters.
MurphySB89 Posts: 56 Joined: 2004/06/01	2004/09/12, 02:42 AM Long legs is sexy as hell. Although I haven't seen you, Your prob not fat, jus tall. U gotta factor in yur height and a lot of other things when it comes to yur weight. this guy sounds like a loser. forget about him
firemansam Posts: 147 Joined: 2004/08/20	2004/09/12, 04:52 AM so turns out the answer to your question is you are sexy send me a picture and i will be happy to verify:)
firemansam Posts: 147 Joined: 2004/08/20	2004/09/12, 04:55 AM and no all boys dont think that way the other day i was talking to a boy and he said he found me attractive :surprised:
Pritchard Posts: 1,212 Joined: 2004/03/02	2004/09/12, 11:47 AM firemansam, what are you talking about, that sort of thing will happen if you insist in hanging around the gay bars. -------------- guns dont kill people, rappers do call the police, woo woo woo. stay dumb, you know it makes no sense. This site is best viewed on a monitor connected to a computer. A.D.F.
firemansam Posts: 147 Joined: 2004/08/20	2004/09/13, 04:46 AM haha pritchard i thought i recognised you
boost1 Posts: 19 Joined: 2003/08/30	2004/09/15, 05:45 AM ============ Quoting from padua: Why do so many people think that getting approvel from others is going to make them feel nice.. YOU should do and look what makes you feel good who cares that someone whats you a different way..everyone has different body types...The real question is are you happy with yourself? ============= I agree with that comment...but I'll give you my personal opinion! Where's the piks at?
Pritchard Posts: 1,212 Joined: 2004/03/02	2004/09/15, 12:15 PM i often linger in a happy, jolly bar, whats funny about that? -------------- guns dont kill people, rappers do call the police, woo woo woo. stay dumb, you know it makes no sense. This site is best viewed on a monitor connected to a computer. A.D.F.
DX14AG Posts: 1,055 Joined: 2004/07/22	2004/09/15, 03:12 PM I don't think that a girl has to be below 130 lbs just to look good. There are many girls that I think look good and they're pretty big...not all guys think alike
arondaballer Posts: 1,054 Joined: 2003/06/14	2004/09/15, 06:09 PM 130 pounds isn't big at all anyway. Some girls have much greater bone density or more muscle and it makes a difference. There was a girl at the gym yesterday who was fine and I heard her say she weighed like 155 or somethin. She didn't look 155 at all, but I noticed she was pretty strong in her lifts for a girl. Nice body too, no chubiness in the belly or legs at all. -------------- I firmly believe that any man's finest hour, the greatest fulfillment of all that he holds dear, is the moment when he has worked his heart out in a good cause and lies exhausted on the field of battle-victorious. --Vince Lombardi "Decide what you want, decide what you are willing to exchange for it. Establish your priorities and go to work." H. L. Hunt
att2388 Posts: 1 Joined: 2004/09/15	2004/09/15, 07:49 PM hey yeah.. i can relate. i am 16, with blonde hair, blue eyes, and im 5'8''. yeah, im about 140 pounds, and guys just dont seem to flock lol. yeah.. all of my friends (that are girls) tell me that im gorgeous, but i just dont see it, and zip attention from guys doesnt really help either. i know that ill just hafta wait, though, because im not going to starve myself just to fit the image of what guys think girls should look like. at least i have curves in all the right places lol. hehe Annie
firemansam Posts: 147 Joined: 2004/08/20	2004/09/16, 02:04 AM How exactly do you thro some game? and which game? ============ Quoting from tmann98c06: youve gata thro some game lol durr, and confidence of coarse =============
jonathanweaver Posts: 576 Joined: 2004/06/14	2004/09/16, 01:51 PM Shoot! If Charlie's not too old for this forum, then certainly you and I (30) aren't too old for it. :big_smile: Just remember, the topics may not be as sophisticated as in the Over 40 forum. -------------- I will never grow up, just old. Jonathan
	2004/09/16, 01:53 PM I'm young enough to realize the difference in a message board and a chat room.:big_smile: -------------- Dances with Buffalos Charlie
jonathanweaver Posts: 576 Joined: 2004/06/14	2004/09/16, 01:58 PM LOL You will always be young at heart, right Charlie? -------------- I will never grow up, just old. Jonathan
	2004/09/16, 02:01 PM sofistikated to. -------------- Dances with Buffalos Charlie
jonathanweaver Posts: 576 Joined: 2004/06/14	2004/09/16, 02:06 PM LMAO!!! Charlie - Have you seen the pic going through the email that shows "Ivan's" projected path? The path curves all around like Billy's travels in Family Circus comics. However, if you sit back and look at it, it's a hand with the middle finger stuck up right next to Florida. If you haven't seen it, I'll find it again and email it to you. -------------- I will never grow up, just old. Jonathan
	2004/09/16, 02:11 PM Sendit Jonathan. -------------- Dances with Buffalos Charlie
jonathanweaver Posts: 576 Joined: 2004/06/14	2004/09/16, 02:12 PM There's a button at the very top of the screen that says CHAT ROOM. That is the chat room. If you have a firewall, you cannot access it. The fundamental difference between the two is that a chat room has several people "chatting" in real time. A message board is where you can post and wait for a reply later. After you log off of a chat room, you cannot access that text again. With a message board, it stays "forever". -------------- I will never grow up, just old. Jonathan
jonathanweaver Posts: 576 Joined: 2004/06/14	2004/09/16, 02:14 PM It is (should be) in your freetrainer inbox. -------------- I will never grow up, just old. Jonathan
Pritchard Posts: 1,212 Joined: 2004/03/02	2004/09/16, 03:19 PM man, im glad im not old. -------------- guns dont kill people, rappers do call the police, woo woo woo. stay dumb, you know it makes no sense. This site is best viewed on a monitor connected to a computer. comment in my damn profile already. A.D.F.
4wheeler1421 Posts: 18 Joined: 2004/10/04	2005/01/03, 08:59 PM It shouldnt matter you what guys think of you. It's only what you want to be. You should be you for yourself. If you like the way you look and you feel comfotable with it then keep it there. I honestly could care less what guys think of me. Don't try to change yourself for someone else. I feel the way I look should only really be important to me and there is going to be a guy who will feel atracted to who I am and what I look like. Don't worry about your weight first off it doesn't even sound like your close to being over weight so I really wouldn't worry bout that. Just always remember that you are your own person not someone else
Lonegirl Posts: 446 Joined: 2002/11/13	2005/01/04, 05:49 AM k you're only 13....Heck I didn't start dating til I was 16. You have plenty of time don't give up on guys quite yet! :)
myxa Posts: 15 Joined: 2005/01/01	2005/01/04, 07:21 PM whoa so many replies.what funny is u are 16 y.o. girl, and u dont know attractive r u or not? thats plain silly. u sound like a kid. grow up girl
Lonegirl Posts: 446 Joined: 2002/11/13	2005/01/05, 09:23 AM Get into shape for yourself 1st...A healthy body and a healthy mind leads to a much higher self esteem....which attracts more people to you. Nobody wants to be around someone who is always down on themselves. Have confidence and happiness. Don't do it for someone else do it for you! :)
4wheeler1421 Posts: 18 Joined: 2004/10/04	2005/01/05, 09:00 PM Myxa to whom are you talking abouy? When you say " whoa so many replies.what funny is u are 16 y.o. girl, and u dont know attractive r u or not? thats plain silly. u sound like a kid. grow up girl" I'm confused
myxa Posts: 15 Joined: 2005/01/01	2005/01/06, 01:28 PM hey all. i dunno whats goin on here:S:S:S brrrrrr are u all one girl? cuz it seems like 1 of u has 3 accounts. did anyone change accounts????so i have no clue
4wheeler1421 Posts: 18 Joined: 2004/10/04	2005/01/07, 09:34 AM myxa..... I am confused to but I only have one account this one 4wheeler but I wasn't sure who your comment was directed toward cuz I don't know im really combobulated :( :surprised:
myxa Posts: 15 Joined: 2005/01/01	2005/01/08, 01:19 AM how long d'ya wait till they put ur pic there?? 4wheela:(
Anni313 Posts: 1,790 Joined: 2004/03/04	2005/01/08, 11:35 PM horse_rider, do yourself a favor and confine your angst to your studies. I feel certain that redirecting your attention to learning will serve you very well in the future. -------------- Anni ******* Does my ass make these pants look big?
DustinKM Posts: 3 Joined: 2005/02/09	2005/02/09, 10:20 PM YOU SOUND VERY HOTT...
buff_tuff_guy Posts: 1 Joined: 2005/02/08	2005/02/11, 08:18 AM Message deleted by moderator due to unsuitable content for this board.
iluvmyguitar19 Posts: 14 Joined: 2005/02/22	2005/02/22, 09:16 PM God Im 13 and Im 135, I have a lot of muscle and I like it that way. He probably wants a girl that way so that he can have fun with her and he knows she's going to die soon. He has some problems. A lot of guys are that way, but they're jerks. Just ignore them, or beat them up. Hee Hee a fav or mine. I know a ton of guys who would totally go for you in a seconds.

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