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2003/03/25, 12:44 PM
This girl i want to be more than friends, I can't just come out and what i feel for fear of it ruining our friendship, Should I hint towards it or what, write her a poem or something? what makes you ladies weak in the knees?
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2003/03/25, 02:31 PM
Ask her on a date and see how that goes. If it goes well, then find out how she feels about you. If you are friends, just asking isn't gonna make a difference. My husband and I were great friends and really never thought about getting together until some friends started asking questions, because we hung out so much and we decided to start dating and now look at us. Very happy.
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Lisa
Just laugh about it....
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2003/03/25, 02:41 PM
Have you gotten any vibes back from her that she may like you too? Long looks? Close talking? Touching while talking to you?
If you are unsure, I would advise to be careful. Go out together as "friends" and see what happens. You could always start giving a few of the things I mentioned above to feel it out. See if she responds in kind.
But, if you like her a lot, take it slow. Don't rush or start being too romantic if you are unsure - it could frighten her away. Patience will be your best bet, I think.
Good luck
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2003/03/26, 11:37 AM
Try asking her how she feels about you...without revealing your feelings. She may just want to remain friends. However, if she is leaning on becoming more than that, then you got it made!
Good luck!
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**_Robert_**
Pain is temporary; glory is forever!
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2003/03/26, 11:39 AM
What age is this girl? How old are you? Just trying to get a feel for the maturity level of everyone involved.
Previously, you had posted...
"Do any of you ladies have guy friends that you are not sexually attracted to? I know a lot of girls and all their gu friends, are people who they slept with or people they want to sleep with or are sexually attracted to. and the others are people who they are not really attracted to but are friends with them because they take them out, buy them things, and help them out. Is there such thing as a girl having a guy friend? or is the girl just his friend for her benefit? and just leading the guy on and being a cock tease?"
Is this girl the one that prompted that post? Have you ever had a conversation with her regarding your relationship and how she views it? Do you feel that she is teasing you or using you?
All females are different, but I think that with most more mature women, you would just KNOW if they liked you for more than a friend or if it was just a "buddy" relationship or if you were being used. If you are fearing that telling her you like her for more might ruin the friendship, then chances are you already know the answer. Go with your gut.
If there really is a friendship between you and you think she likes you for more also, simply asking her on a date won't ruin that. Don't just say, "Hey, wanna go to a movie?". That could be taken as friends hanging out. Something like, "Would you like to go on a date with me this weekend?" makes it clear that you are asking her out on a date as more than friends. Worse case, she says no and you are right back where you are now. :) Best case, she says yes. If she does say yes, don't rush her! Azon is right, patience is a virtue.
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~Jennifer
http://www.gwindalyn.com
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2003/03/27, 10:12 AM
Yikes, I think she made it clear she doesnt want me to cross that line, now i gotta make things right in our friendship
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