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how to hook a women?

qsilver18
qsilver18
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Joined: 2003/03/07
United States
2003/03/20, 10:23 AM
Recently i have broke up w/ my girlfriend and have been trying to get back into the dating scene. A lot of the girls I have met just want to be friends, or if they don't, there is always that akward first few minutes when i meet them. I was just wondering how I can get them to want to be more than friends and help ease the first few akward min.
gwindalyn
gwindalyn
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Joined: 2003/01/15
United States
2003/03/20, 10:55 AM
Don't try so hard. Most girls don't like to feel like they are being pressured. And usually they can sense when you are desperate.

Just be yourself. Have some confidence. Don't worry about finding a girlfriend. Make some FRIENDS and have fun with life.

The best relationships are founded on friendships.

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~Jennifer

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stowned
stowned
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Joined: 2003/03/17
Canada
2003/03/20, 11:08 AM
I'd have to agree with Gwindalyn, Women have a friggen sixth sense. They can tell when you are "on the prowl". Of all the relationships I have had 99% of them started purely by circumstance, meaning that when I targeted a specific woman and tried to get something started with her "cold" it rarely worked out.

My focus these days is myself, I expect that I will do far better improving myself and seeing who takes notice rather than running around with that crazed look in my eye :)
dpking44
dpking44
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Joined: 2002/08/07
United States
2003/03/20, 11:25 AM
Hook a woman? You mean it's like fishing? Kewl, what bait do I use? lmao I already hooked one anyway.. well, I sort of snagged her in a net. hehe
Carivan
Carivan
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Canada
2003/03/20, 06:15 PM
Guess there are lots of fish in the ocean DP?

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Ivan Montreal Canada
dpking44
dpking44
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United States
2003/03/21, 06:49 AM
Many fish indeed.
gwindalyn
gwindalyn
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United States
2003/03/21, 06:56 AM
Mackeral or Tuna?!?!

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~Jennifer

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dpking44
dpking44
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Joined: 2002/08/07
United States
2003/03/21, 08:13 AM
Mackeral if it's holy mackeral. Mermaids are the best though. lol
I_Am-aZon
I_Am-aZon
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Canada
2003/03/21, 11:13 AM
I guess the mermaids can't run away from you huh dp?? LOL Sorry buddy - haven't harrassed you in awhile! :)

qsilver - I'd go with gwindalyn's advice - friendship can start great relationships. Also, I find that the pressure is off both people if friendship is all that is intended - you can be yourself without feeling tense or akward... things can grow from there....
dpking44
dpking44
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United States
2003/03/21, 11:20 AM
She's baaaaaaaaaack. lol
I_Am-aZon
I_Am-aZon
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2003/03/21, 11:23 AM
Have to keep you on your toes DP! LOL