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Im So Weak...Help Me

G_Unit
G_Unit
Posts: 9
Joined: 2003/09/02
United States
2004/05/18, 10:20 AM
I am 17 and a Junior at high school and I weigh like 175 pounds. I just started to go back to the gym and I am so weak. I was trying to lift 95 pounds and the bar fell on my chest. I dropped it 10 pounds to 85 pounds and it fell on my chest once again. I felt so embarrased. How can I raise my bench above 100 pounds and how long will it take? I feel like how I get no gains anywhere. Somtimes I feel like going home and crying because of my weakness. Also at school when people try to push me or something. I can't do anything back because I am so weak even for my size, which is not a good thing. Someone please help me and I also got a stomach which I don't like and I have a chest that has male tits. Please help me, I am gonna go in a corner again... :(
DanielJLove
DanielJLove
Posts: 320
Joined: 2004/03/30
United States
2004/05/18, 10:54 AM
G,

You'll get there, but I hate to tell you there is no magical formula. You just have to keep working at it. I am presently 279 lbs and can bench around that much wieght, but that isn't were I started. When I was a freshman in high school, I wieghed about the same as you and started with a max of 95lbs. Here is the good news, if you are willing to work out consistently that number will go up rather quickly. By the end of that first semester in wieghts I had increased my max to 165lbs.

However, don't get fixated on your bench, you need to do other exercises as well. Make sure you are working your triceps, biceps, back, shoulders and legs. As you overall strength improves it will help your bench go up as well. As for teh stomach and gynomastia ("man tits"), the more consistent you are with your diet and workouts the more these will disappear.

However, remember that you are only 17. You are still growing and there are a lot of hormones at play. At this point I would concentrate on eating clean, and balanced, working out consistently and allowing your body to grow. Don't try to do to much of a calorie defecit right now, your body is going to continue to grow for possibly the next 2-5 years. I didn't have any real shoulders until I was almost 21.

Good luck and stick with it.

Daniel