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Man and woman - an old topic revisited

I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/27, 03:05 PM Can a man and woman just be friends or is there always that "sex" thing to deal with? I ask because today my colleagues were discussing this and came up with some pretty crazy ideas - thought it might be fun to broach the subject here...
dougherty36 Posts: 89 Joined: 2003/02/22	2003/02/27, 04:12 PM I have a few woman friends, and we talk and joke about sex. As for having sex with them it never crosses my mind.
dougherty36 Posts: 89 Joined: 2003/02/22	2003/02/27, 04:21 PM you and beauty have a relationship like me and my wife. the kind most of our friends wish they had and i think it is cool as hell.
Ravenbeauty Posts: 3,755 Joined: 2002/09/24	2003/02/27, 04:24 PM it can happen, but as all relationships, every person has their limits. To me it is a very delicate situation. Especially when joking about sex or even discussing it for that matter are involved. Sometimes that can trigger in to someone believing it is more than just joking or playing. Sometimes maybe for yourself or the other person for that matter, it can be a flickering flame that turns into a gigantic fire. I myself personally have male friends, but i omit sexual conversations or anything close to that from what friendship we have and I am also very blunt when it comes to making clear exactly what type of a relationship it is we have. I do this not only out of respect for my boyfriend, i do this for myself. it keeps things clean and everyone with a clear head. If i feel at all that another male is friend's feelings are changing or have changed, then i make a choice to change cirmcumstances accordningly. Just my two cents. my best friend too is ravenwolf,and that's the way it should be. -------------- Bettia.... When you feel like giving up, take it to the limit one more time!! You will SUCEED :-)
Ravenbeauty Posts: 3,755 Joined: 2002/09/24	2003/02/27, 04:29 PM it sure is damn cool as hell dougherty36, it is something i have always wanted and can't believe i've found. It has its ups and downs like every other relationship, but we always come back stronger in the end. -------------- Bettia.... When you feel like giving up, take it to the limit one more time!! You will SUCEED :-)
dougherty36 Posts: 89 Joined: 2003/02/22	2003/02/27, 04:32 PM I know how that goes. i don't know about you two, but everyone we are around thinks that is just sick. lol
roni0906 Posts: 1,008 Joined: 2002/01/24	2003/02/28, 07:55 PM Oh, good God, I am a female around a lot of guys and yes you can just be friends without the sex involved. There are other things to talk about, but yeah sex is a big issue with adults anyway, so I would think that it would come up sooner or later, but maybe not about with each other. -------------- Lisa Just laugh about it....
Kalanchoe Posts: 400 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/03/01, 05:44 AM i'm the only girl living in a student house with 5 guys. they're my best friends and there would never be even a whiff of anything sexual cos they're like my brothers. K x -------------- My body only feels good when it burns!
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/03/01, 06:36 AM Who needs sex anyway. sheesh. lol