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2004/12/04, 01:38 AM
I dont know where to start or even how to make this long story short enough so you all wont get bored. there is this guy at my school..He is the popular, rich, has an amazing ford f-150 lightning truck boy. I always knew of him because he was dating a girl in my grade last year ( i am a junior he is a senior) Well uo until this year i neer talked to him or associated with him until this past August when i met him through my best friend. Well i kind of developed this thing for me, there was just something that drew me toward him, i mean he's not hot but hes not ugly there was just something..anyway i never told anyone at first because i am terrified of rejection.....his ex girlfriend was 5'0, prolly 105lbs, and then theres me 5'10 almost 5'11 around 150...big difference well one day i got the courage to tell my best firend who then ran off and told him his response: she's cool and pretty but i have a girlfriend......I was disappointed but then i let it go..Well after that in the halls i would be walking and he would watch me while i walked by little things like that...Well i kind of stopped really associating with him after that for a while...then yesterday his ex girlfriend who is in one of my classes starting talking about him really badly...i mean degrading stuff and he heard about it and asked me and i told him.. well his ex flipped on me saying all this stuff about how she was going to tell him that i was obsessed with him and that she was going to make him hate me etc.... Well i told him what she said and he was like no shes a slut if she touches you....etc etc.. which made me feel good and then today in the halls he was smiling at me and watching me anyway i just want to know if i am weird and ned some advice but do any of you ever get this feeling...like your drawn toward that person and you dont know why....but someway somehow you guys cross paths no matter what..you just get a feeling..like i will lose all hope and then something will happen where we will cross paths....FATe or coincidence????HELP what do you all think on this situation??Sorry so long:love:
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2004/12/04, 04:53 AM
Yes, this guy sounds like the crown jewel of any womans collection, doesn't he? Is this high school or junior high? I believe that your paths may be crossing because you go to the same school, I'm uncertain as to whether that qualifies as fate or coincidence because depending on your perspective, it could be both or neither.
I strongly suggest that you stay away from all things male and devote yourself to your studies. I also suggest that you distance yourself from the gossip and intrigue which seem to swirl around you.
Try to rise above the whole sordid business of being however old you are, take advantage of the educational opportunties before you and wear large sweaters which hide your girlish figure. I believe all of these things will serve you well although the wisdom of it will only become clear in retrospect.
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2004/12/04, 04:57 AM
One more thing, please do not double post, especially when you are asking questions of this nature. One post seems much, much more than adequate.
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2004/12/04, 05:47 AM
I would say that in this time of your life you are figuring out what you want in a man (for future purposes) take advantage of opportunities, if you are drawn to someone, explore that. If someone is drawn to you and you are interested as well, explore that too. Don't limit yourself because of your self-perception. Go for it, you are in a great time of your life right now. Be warned, relationships can lead to joy as well as hurt. Be ready for both and learn how to move on if one doesn't work out.
Annie also has a good point, dont get so caught up in relationships that yo lose focus on your studies - that is what will get you ahead in life.
Good Luck!
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2004/12/04, 07:45 PM
want me to beat the snot outta him?
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2005/01/16, 11:19 PM
I am going to throw my 2cents worth in, what the heck. I think anni313 is right. I am a guy but I have a teenage daughter. I tell her to concentrate on her schooling and for the most part to stay away from guys. High school for the most part are pigs( I was one)Not all of them mind you but you don't need anyone outside of friendship right now. Stay close with your family and focus on your future. Thats what I think.
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2005/01/17, 01:31 PM
I have to say, "staying away from guys" when you are a junior in high school is a tough thing to ask, hormones raging and love seemingly comes along with the air you breathe, but at that age, yes, the boys are most times more interested in one thing than the other and girls often throw everything out the window to be "the one" he "loves", thus the advice on sticking to the studies is a smart one, even though it may sound boring to you. Trying to stay out of gossips way is another difficult task while in high school as most haven't and won't mature for yet a long, long time (some - never), but ducking out on that one is for the best, also. Just take your time where all is concerned and think everything out the best you can before jumping into any decisions regarding relationships. Good luck to you.
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MISERY IS OPTIONAL
***When you are up to your ears in trouble, try using the part that is not submerged.
***The difference between a dream and a goal is a plan.
HAVE A GREAT DAY!
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