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2007/03/20, 03:12 PM
Sooo....as some of you know I have seperated from my husband...Sat night a customer came in...wouldn't call him a regular...but he comes in with some of his friends every couple of weekends or so after hitting the bars.My boss decided to tell him I was single...I know she was trying to help...but I could have killed her.He asked if he could call me...I told him I hadn't even moved out yet...I moved out on sun...and he had his beer goggles on anyway..I wasn't all that cute.So he just laughed and dropped it.Well....he came in last night by himself...there was nobody in there so I sat and talked with him a bit.I told him I wasn't trying to date anybody...I just moved out the day before...he said that he went through a divorce a few years back...and would have appreciated having someone he could go do things with every now and again...so he gave me his number...told me to think about it...if I wanted...we could go to his gym on thursday...seperate cars...no big deal.Not sure what to do here...I just moved out...this seems a little tacky.BUT...he seems like a nice guy...easy to talk...easy to look at...I was surprised to see him come in last night..I thought that was nice...my biggest dilema is I woke up with a very disconnected feeling today...and I'm not sure if this has something to do with it....
what do you think?????
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2007/03/20, 03:22 PM
Sorry to hear about your family situation. I will pray for you on that. As for your other situation, it may seem too soon (but that is your call). You may want to think about what your children or others will think if yall are seen together so shortly after moving out. While as innocent as can be, some may get other ideas. I am all for not caring what others think but that may have a time and place and this may not be one of those times. If the guy is sincere, he will understand. But then again what do I know. Again sorry to hear about this. Hope this helps one way or another
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2007/03/20, 03:33 PM
I don't know...I think he wants to hook up with you and is trying to make it seem as harmless as possible. Not that he isn't harmless, but what kind of vibe are you picking up? Do you really believe he is just looking to be your friend or do you think he's hoping to be first in line when you do decide to start dating, and hoping that will be sooner rather than later. I definitely think you need to give yourself some breathing room. Guys tend to fall hard and fast if you give them an inch (especially lonely, divorced types), which is probably not something you need to deal with right now. Maybe hold on to his phone number for a few weeks before you decide to take any action, the go with your gut.
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2007/03/20, 03:35 PM
should have been "something you DON'T need to deal with"
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