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2003/08/10, 02:35 PM
Sorry if this might seem too long, but I really need some advice. Here’s the thing, about 4 weeks ago I started part time work at this at this company. Now when I started work, I did’nt know that a friend of mine also worked there but I met up with him on my first day. I also found out that his girlfriend and her friend also worked there. As the week went by, I became friends with the two girls, as I got to know the other girl better; not my friend’s girlfriend; I really started to like her. The second week of work she told me that she was going to quit at the end of the week. Since we became good friends, she asked me for my number and said that we should hangout sometime and I got her number as well. The day that she quit, I asked her out and she said yes. But the thing is that she was busy that weekend and the next weekend with weddings; she already mentioned this to me before I asked her out. I talked to her last week and she said that my friend and his girlfriend wanted to do something together this weekend and I agreed. But the problem is that I found out from my friend that she cancelled the date because she couldn’t make it. She didn’t even call and tell me, I had to call my friend and ask what was going on. Now I’m not sure but does this mean that she’s not interested in me? I really like this girl and I want something to happen between us. It’s hard to get a hold of her on the phone too and I don’t want to leave messages all the time because I don’t want to seem like I’m desperate or anything. Can someone give me some advice on what to do? Once again, I’m REALLY SORRY if this is too long. Any help is much appreciated. THANKS A LOT!!!
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2003/08/10, 09:33 PM
If you found out from your mom that she cancelled, I'm assuming she called your house and you just weren't home? If this is the case, I would not say that she didn't call and tell you.
My advice, move on. You've put yourself out there. She knows you like her. The ball is in her court now. In the meantime, just go on living your life and having fun without thinking about her. If she calls you up, great. If not, no big deal.
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~Jennifer
http://www.gwindalyn.com
If you dont stand for something, you will fall for anything.
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2003/08/11, 09:00 AM
Perhaps she is just interested in being friends? Did you give her the impression that you wished to be more than just that?
As gwin said, the balls in her court. Good luck!
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2003/10/23, 11:24 AM
Maybe you should just call her and leave a voice mail saying I have made many attempts to call you and you haven't returned calls or have set up dates and canceled them with someone else instead of talking to me.
Just tell her I would like to date you because I think you're a wonderful girl so I'll just leave things up to you. If you're interested call me back and we'll set up a date for Friday night. Then I'll know you're interested as well. If you're not interested then don't call back. Hope to talk to you soon!
Now, not word for word but something along those lines. ;) hehehe
Or if you know her address you could just mail her a blank card with your phone number in it and nothing else.
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2003/10/24, 09:56 AM
cut her loose
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2003/10/29, 12:11 PM
Yeah it's probably a good idea to go ahead and start working on another chick that you might like. ;)
My motto is ... no point in wasting my precious energy on someone that's not interested.
Use it on someone that is interested and make the spent energy work for you not against you. :)
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2003/10/30, 04:58 PM
listen..i can tell you personally that when a girl likes you she WILL answer your calls or call you back as soon as she gets around the phone and she's she missed you...so ur best bet is to forget about her and move on... the truth hurts but there will be someone else that will give u the attention u want--or maybe the reason u like her so much is because she isnt giving u all the attention!--trust me if she isnt giving it now she never will!
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