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goldengloves
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2004/02/12, 06:22 PM
Ok this is a pretty dumb question but it has got me stumped and upset me just a bit.

Recently my g/f had been acting real weird and she was always against wearing thongs and crap like that well today before she goes to work she has one on. Im like whats up w/ that you know and she was like I have to wear them w/ my pants or my underwear line shows through and I was like ok well it is pretty noticeable now w/ just a thong on. Nothing to drastic really to me but considering the girl never wore them before and that will grab attention more than regular bikini underwear lines it got me thinking. So Im at home and the ups man comes to the door drops off a package and it is in her name. I was bored so I was like HMMM and opened it. She bought 2 bottles of that dumb bloussant crap for her breasts.

Should I be worried could she be wanting to impress someone else? Or just make herself look better since I took on a new lifestyle as well????

I know it's dumb but it has me thinking and would like to hear opinions. Thanks.
rpacheco
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2004/02/12, 06:33 PM
I think that if you're that concerned, talk to her. I wouldn't be accusatory or confrontational...just a nice long, constructive conversation. Advise her that you noticed she is dressing up sexier than usual and compliment her on that. Then ask her is she is doing it more for your benefit or hers?

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goldengloves
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2004/02/12, 06:39 PM
I was going to try that today but the mood wasnt right...Im wanting to wait until v-day is over dont need to much drama at that time really. Plus she it is that time of the month for her and I dont need to get her all worked up....Just want to see others opinions if I am over exaggerating or what.
goodoldtex
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2004/02/12, 07:26 PM
wow gloves, i know exactly what you mean mang. I used to have similar type issues with my GF and it would really kinda mess with my head inside...like used to she wouldn't ever wear a bathing suit without shorts on the bottom not even if it was just me...well one day she went out with a bunch of friends, and she did. It of course screwed with my mind...i had no idea what to think about it because i mean she would tell me she felt most comfortable around me, but then shed be off wearing sexy clothes in front of others...it made me think she liked some other guy or something....blah it sucked....needless to say i just sat down with her and talked about it, and things worked themselves out...best of luck braddah
goldengloves
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2004/02/12, 07:30 PM
goodoldtex-EXACTLY! I've been dating her for well over 4 years! I should be over things like this by now...Funny part is Im not so uptight about the whole breast pills as I am the thong lol...I know she has had some insecurity issues about those things for a long time and cant judge her either im taking supplements to make my body better so she could say im working out and crap like that for another girl...I think im being one dimensional and should lighten up. But my god she looked beautiful going out today!
goodoldtex
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2004/02/12, 09:22 PM
yup.....i know it all too well
pimple
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2004/02/12, 10:41 PM
lol, you post a question for the ladies in the ladies' board, and all of the replies come from dudes...

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perfect_elise
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2004/02/13, 04:53 AM
Many girls hate the idea of thongs before actually getting to wear them, but then become hooked.

I think she told you the truth - bikini lines are very uncomfortable and they make you feel self-conscious. And given the % of guys who check out a girl's butt in one day, being insecure about it can ruin a girl's day.

I first wore them to prevent bikini lines from showing rather than trying to look sexy.

I think you've got nothing to worry about. :)





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hecdarec
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2004/02/13, 07:34 AM
How happy is your girlfriend that you opened her mail?

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goldengloves
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2004/02/13, 08:24 AM
When she came home last night I cracked jokes about wearing the thong and she started laughing and said it was so uncomfortable and she hated it :). Hecdarec-I dont care if she is unhappy or not comes to my house I open it. She opens my mail so it is mutual.
lynnoakdale
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2004/02/13, 10:22 AM
My thought on thongs..........there was a time before thongs that I spent most of my time digging my panties out of my a$$ because no matter what brand size or type you buy they somehow creeped up there and it drove me nuts.........so now I cant see myself purposly shoving something in my A$$ when all I really want to do it get it out. Yes I know that once you get use to them they are very comfortable but I havent gotten to that point yet. As far as Bikin lines go I can see why she would switch to a thong..........those are emabarassing..................I have a question for you.....
Would you rather her be sporting around in a thong or a pair of cotten Briefs?
And maybe jsut maybe she is dressing a little sexier to accomdate your new lifestyle........

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goldengloves
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2004/02/13, 10:27 AM
Actually im not a fan of thongs. I liked the bikini style underwear *she wore silk/satin*. I actually think tangas/boyshorts are way sexier than thongs but she hasnt gotten a pair of those yet *even though I brought it up 1000 times*

My g/f doesnt even recognize me working out at least she doesnt compliment me....To each their own I guess...
I_Am-aZon
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2004/02/13, 11:06 AM
GG: I wonder if maybe your g/f doesn't compliment you perhaps because she may be very insecure about her own image. Maybe the fact that you are working out and getting in better shape has made her feel a little nervous - like she has to get in better shape also. (Hence the purchase of "bloussant crap"?)

As to thongs, with todays low-rise pants, they are almost necessary - (although the boy shorts can sometimes work to) There is nothing attractive about having larger style underwear (bikinis and the grandma style)peeking out from the back of jeans when you sit down! Ugh! lol
goldengloves
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2004/02/13, 11:08 AM
Amazon-Good point Informative.....I think this post could end right now....Thanks everyone