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nice_girl Posts: 7 Joined: 2006/08/11	2006/09/05, 02:25 PM Oh i dont know what to do right now my boyfriend went down state for two days and i am so stressed out cause our relationship is on the rocks right now and he told me when he gets back we need to talk...So now i am eating everything in sight i am so dam stressed out i ended up losing some weight on here but then this happened now i gain some back and cant stop eating everything...I hope he is not cheating on me he already has hit me before twice but that was just about 6 months ago and he never hit me again yet...He is down at his brothers house and his wife and him are big time swingers i just hope my bf dont get wrapped up with shit...Oh well have to go and eat some more cheese puffs bye ya :(
yadmit Posts: 4,670 Joined: 2003/10/05	2006/09/05, 02:31 PM Dump him. Start over and eat better and workout. t -------------- I am training for birthdays. Be here. Live. Love. Hope. Now. Faith. Believe. You. - Keith Urban
7707mutt Posts: 7,686 Joined: 2002/06/18	2006/09/05, 02:57 PM He hits you and cheated on you? WHy stay with that? You are worth so much more... -------------- Less Talk, More Chalk! The Men and Boys are Separated by one thing: The Squat Cage! 7707mutt@freetrainers.com
KC_72 Posts: 3,249 Joined: 2006/05/19	2006/09/05, 03:03 PM If you allow somebody to have that kind of control over you,if you allow another persons actions to dictate how you look at and treat yourself,you don't need that person in your life. But in your case none of that even matters...he hit you???Twice?????I'm going with t on this one.... Dump him... like the trash he is...
Carivan Posts: 8,542 Joined: 2002/01/20	2006/09/05, 09:18 PM Dump him or call the cops next time he hits you. Maybe he'll enjoy getting tie wrapped! -------------- Scales are for dead weight: We are not dead yet! Still trying to find out how to do the Hollywood Free Press. Ivan Montreal Canada
mrsruccus Posts: 16 Joined: 2006/08/13	2006/09/05, 10:26 PM I know from experience he hit you once or twice he'll hit you again, and if he doesn't respect you enough not to put his hands on you, he won't respect you enough not to cheat on you. KICK HIS ASS TO THE CURB QUICKLY! Then watch sleeping with the enemy to remind yourself why you don't need him back. protect yourself.
asimmer Posts: 8,201 Joined: 2003/01/07	2006/09/06, 07:48 AM I agree, he isn't worth your time, get rid of him..I bet you will feel better instantly. And lift some weights to deal with the stress and anxiety - nothing beats battling the weights or running on the elliptcal for erasing stress! -------------- Dont ever give up on a dream due to the amount of time it will take to achieve it. The time will pass anyway. - Russ Ebsen Aim high, time flies (fortune cookie saying)
BILL06 Posts: 755 Joined: 2006/08/08	2006/09/06, 01:36 PM lorena bobbitt comes to mind in this situation, or all situations where a guy hits a girl, punks.... -------------- Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either. You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.
	2006/09/06, 03:49 PM So... he verbally abuses you, beats you, goes off to a swinging party and you're asking advice and eating cheese puffs? You may be beyond help. A good friend of mine had a similar problem. She was married to a E9 green beret who used to smack her around. After a while she grew weary of being a punching bag and came up with this solution. She got him really drunk one night. He passed out in their bed and she got a bunch of safety pins and pinned the sheets and bedspread every 6 inches around the perimeter of the bed creating a nice tight cocoon.She waited 6 hours so he was good and hung over and then she took a one inch thick broom handle and proceded to beat the everliving shit out of him. Before she unpinned him, she told him in no uncertain terms that she realized that he could return the treatment at his will but that he should remember he would have to sleep again sometime and she'd be waiting. End of abuse and beatings. -------------- Sometimes life is like herding cats. Charlie
yadmit Posts: 4,670 Joined: 2003/10/05	2006/09/06, 04:06 PM Gulp. Wow. t -------------- I am training for birthdays. Be here. Live. Love. Hope. Now. Faith. Believe. You. - Keith Urban
7707mutt Posts: 7,686 Joined: 2002/06/18	2006/09/06, 04:14 PM CHARLIE! Nice to see Ernesto did not sink ya! -------------- Less Talk, More Chalk! The Men and Boys are Separated by one thing: The Squat Cage! 7707mutt@freetrainers.com
KC_72 Posts: 3,249 Joined: 2006/05/19	2006/09/06, 04:38 PM Yes....we've missed you...life has been rather dull without your input!!!!!:love:
Carivan Posts: 8,542 Joined: 2002/01/20	2006/09/06, 05:11 PM Thanks Charlie! Nicely said. -------------- Scales are for dead weight: We are not dead yet! Still trying to find out how to do the Hollywood Free Press. Ivan Montreal Canada
	2006/09/06, 05:35 PM KC I posted this on the pro board but I forgot you haven't dipped into that rusty wallet for a membership so this is for you. We weathered the storm well. It helped us find a ton of leaks. We have plugged about 25 leaks and are about half way done. These are roof leaks, not hull leaks. Old boats are so much fun. Thew winds got up to a sustained 50 mph and we both slept through the worst of it. We spent the rest of the time retying other boats on the dock. Nobody sustained serious damage and we had a ball. -------------- Sometimes life is like herding cats. Charlie
KC_72 Posts: 3,249 Joined: 2006/05/19	2006/09/06, 05:48 PM Well I'm glad to hear all is well...but now I'm not speaking to you...well after this.... rusty wallet.....her's a big raspberry for you....:P
nice_girl Posts: 7 Joined: 2006/08/11	2006/09/27, 11:43 AM Yes two weeks ago i have finally got rid of brian just cause i caught him cheating on me..and now i have been following ths program to lose more weight again cause i did lose weight here once before and now i am going to lose weight again without brian and i know one day i find the right guy for me but i am not going to just eating when i get to stressed out i will just work out instead...Thanks guys for everything.....
KC_72 Posts: 3,249 Joined: 2006/05/19	2006/09/27, 11:47 AM Well now thats the spirit!!!!!Good for you nice_girl!!!!Alot of people would just wallow in their misery...it takes moxy to get out there and do what you know you should. Good luck with everything!!!!!
yadmit Posts: 4,670 Joined: 2003/10/05	2006/09/27, 11:56 AM Good! Way to go....! t -------------- I am training for birthdays. Be here. Live. Love. Hope. Now. Faith. Believe. You. - Keith Urban They always say time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself. - Andy Warhol