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2005/06/02, 10:30 AM
oh man, this is winding me up. there was this girl who i really liked for about two years, we got on really, really well, but she had a boyfriend who lived with her... i know this sounds extreme but it was cos he fell out with his mum with no other family etc etc and also this girls mum thought he was the best thing that could possibly happen to her... but i knew she like me, and there was something there, you know when you know. anyways id just about forgot about her as id managed not to see her for a year, mostly cos it was driving me mad how i couldnt have her. but the other day i saw her walking down the street with her boyfriend... i could see her a mile off and was about ready to talk to her for hours about anything and nothing... we just said hello and then she was virtually hustled off by the boyfriend whos always been protective of her. as she crossed the street she did look back but carried on walking off with him. i was about ready to kick the sh!t out of him, because of jealousy mostly, but because i knew that we would have talked, but my mate who i was with was like 'dont be an idiot all your life man'.
so that is basically it, i cant stop thinking about her and its driving me f#cking nuts, and the other thing is im gonna be seeing her at college next year, so im gonna have to do something. i dont even know why i posted this, mostly to get it off my chest, but if youve ever been such a soft twat it would be nice to here you stories to make me try and get over myself and how bad im feeling. this also caused me to break up with my girlfiend... it wasnt her fault, it was cos she wasnt this other girl who im not gonna say the name of. anyways, it actually feels a little better typing it.
adam
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driving to eat a carvel cake
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2005/06/03, 08:07 AM
pritchard, I will tell you this.....do not try to fight him cause that could turn her away, but I do think you need to tell her, if she doesnt already know... Not saying go behind the guys back or nothing, but you cant keep acting like you dont care for her.... and then just leave the rest up to her. she might just need to hear you say that you like her. My husband and I liked each other for 2 yrs before we told each other. The reason I never told him was cause I was afriad that he didnt feel the same and that is the same reason he never told me..... so I do think you need to let her know... She might feel the same and just not sure how you feel about it.... so let her know and then just let things ride out from there..... :)
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God wont give you anything you cant handle!
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2005/06/03, 01:26 PM
i obviosly wasnt gonna fight him, im not THAT stupid. the fact of the matter is i still dont want to do it to her boyfriend anyway, i dont wanna mess things up if i dont have to. i feel like i should just leave it
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2005/06/03, 01:43 PM
Beat his ass and take her.
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I was 17 years old the first time my father told me he loved me.
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2005/06/03, 03:04 PM
there are tons of girls out there man. if she wanted you, she would come around more without her boyfriend. sounds like you are the trademark nice guy that gets dumped on in this situation.
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2005/06/03, 03:17 PM
hec hec hec, words of wisdom every time. every one a winner.
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