2004/05/02, 09:30 PM
I have a question for all you girls out there. What is the most appealing trait that "your" man must have? And by this I mean anything that pertains to looks or personality...thanks if you all can help...
-------------- KIXklez
-Silence your toughest critic...yourself.
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2004/05/02, 09:48 PM
That's a tough question.
I never date men who don't make me extremely nervous. Men who are well-educated, powerful, intelligent, and confident, make me very nervous. When he looks at me, I know that he knows something about me that I don't know about myself and he's intrigued by it. I can't explain it, on some level he's dangerous and that's exciting. There is no one thing, it's an attitude I find completely irresistable. It's more important than looks or anything else I can think of.
-------------- Anni
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2004/05/03, 05:48 AM
Sense of humor. I figure if you can't laugh about life in it's "ups" and "downs" then your wasting your time.
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2004/05/03, 06:25 AM
Attentiveness...not so much being coddled, but rather paying enough attention to know WHEN I need to be fussed over.
Kind of like being observant enough to know the moments I need a friend as opposed to needing a lover....knowing the difference between the times I can do it by myself and those that I need him to step in and take control.
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2004/05/03, 09:41 AM
It's not the looks OR the personality as Anni said so well, and I'd go one step further -- I want a man to be smarter than me.
That impresses the hell out of me! I love to learn, I want to be shown new experiences and have his passions shared with me. Be it classical art or skydiving, know and love your stuff and you're all right with me.
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