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Yahooo Posts: 18 Joined: 2002/11/04	2003/02/10, 08:56 AM I got a question for you ladies, Seems to me all the Cute girls want a guy who is a scum bag, Always after the ones who treat them badly, Do drugs, pick fights. Whats the deal? maybe its just the younger ones that are dumb, then when they get older and used up they want something else.
Lonegirl Posts: 446 Joined: 2002/11/13	2003/02/10, 09:15 AM LOL I think it depends on the girl. Bring back chivalry. I personally love the nice guy, friendly, charming, yes the "bad boy" is intriguing, but Charm will get you much further. I am lucky and my husband is a super charming great fun guy...plus we've been bestfriends and together since we were in highschool. Good luck! There's more of us out there.
houseofdiet Posts: 161 Joined: 2003/01/07	2003/02/10, 08:43 PM ...Lonegirl is right, the "bad boys" intrigue us. Just keep on being nice and someday the right women will recognize you for your excellent qualities.
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/11, 07:03 AM Reminds me of George Castanza on "Seinfeld" when he was the badboy and that blonde was after him. Women do like that, at least once in a while. However, the charming, gentleman type seems to get more women for the long haul. lol Now I have to figure out where that all went? lmao.
London Posts: 176 Joined: 2003/01/10	2003/02/12, 10:53 PM I think what it really comes down to is men (and women) don't want anyone that is "needy". And nice guys often come off WAY too needy when first starting to date. Jerks aren't needy at all, so women think, why isn't he interested? And that plays off their self-esteem etc... This is just a general theory though. That's why it always seems like when you like someone they don't reciprocate and vice versa.. That is until you find the right person when you are emotionally ready to start a relationship. Just my two cents. =)
Ravenbeauty Posts: 3,755 Joined: 2002/09/24	2003/02/15, 12:23 PM bad boys have never gained any interest in me at all! i can honestly say that, reason being is i have 4 children of my own, i don't need another one to take care of.LOL but truth, in general, i do see a lot of women and men attracted to that type of person. maybe it's to add excitement into their lives. But it ususally doesn't last from what i've seen. just my four cents (not two) -------------- Bettia.... When you feel like giving up, take it to the limit one more time!! You will SUCEED :-)
Jake13 Posts: 27 Joined: 2003/01/28	2003/02/15, 04:08 PM Hmm well from past experiance with Girls theres no real way to win (no offence ladies!) I just got over my last relationship and it was kinda weird...no matter how many things you do right...you've always done something wrong...anybody else know what I mean? A couple old sayings come to mind when talking about this subject...."There's lots of other fish in the sea" and my favorite "Sometimes The Good Guy Finishes in Last" Whooho I'm a looser! I'll double that and make it my 8 cents! Jake
Greenlee Posts: 65 Joined: 2003/01/17	2003/02/17, 11:43 PM When I was younger the "badboy" was all I would go after. It took me a few years to settle down. Honestly the guy that I go after is one that has more muscle mass than I do. After all of my years of chasing and dating the "badboy" I have settled down with a COP. God help me what was I thinking. This specific cop started out as my personal trainer. He had the right bidy type and the combination of being the nice guy and the "badboy" all wrapped up into one. You just need to find your type sweetie
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/19, 02:01 PM I hate to admit this, but when I was younger, I loved the "badboys"(maybe it had to do with growing up with "The Fonz"). LOL Anyway, I think I was attracted to them because they did not seem interested in me. I enjoyed the chase, so to speak. Nice guys were just too easy...how shallow I was....sigh Then I grew up and I married the nice guy. It sure is nice to know I have someone who will be there when I need him, is a super father and calls if he's going to be late. Life is good.(:
Ravenbeauty Posts: 3,755 Joined: 2002/09/24	2003/02/19, 03:44 PM here, here on that amazon, minus the calls to be late (sometimes) lol. -------------- Bettia.... When you feel like giving up, take it to the limit one more time!! You will SUCEED :-)
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/21, 10:27 AM I guess I'm happy cause at least he calls! lol I've been with a few "winners" (translation : good lookin bad boys) who didn't even bother to do that. Imagine! One even stood me up on New Years... Guess what my resolution was...... ;)LOL
Ravenbeauty Posts: 3,755 Joined: 2002/09/24	2003/02/21, 10:51 AM lmao, now that is a big no no, let alone on New Years!!! lol my imagination can be very vivid sometimes...lol so your resolution must've been good!! lol -------------- Bettia.... When you feel like giving up, take it to the limit one more time!! You will SUCEED :-)
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/21, 10:58 AM LOL ravenbeauty - his clothes were packed up nice and neatly for him at the door.... Ghod, I was soooo stupid - this guy liked strip clubs too (can you spell LOSER!!LOL) Like, I'm not a 'woofer' and worked real hard to look nice -Talk about insulting! What wuz I thinking???? (I blame it on my hair colour!! lol
Ravenbeauty Posts: 3,755 Joined: 2002/09/24	2003/02/21, 02:18 PM lmao!!! please tell me you are a blonde then....LOL (no pun intended)...LOL! -------------- Bettia.... When you feel like giving up, take it to the limit one more time!! You will SUCEED :-)
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/21, 02:49 PM Yes...it's true....*sigh* my hair is blonde Now I just have to perfect that little squeaky giggle and blinky eye routine....LOL >.<
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/21, 03:17 PM And I_Am-azon, don't forget bouncing the head back and forth on each shoulder saying "I don't know, I don't know." lmao
Ravenbeauty Posts: 3,755 Joined: 2002/09/24	2003/02/21, 03:39 PM dpking...huh? -------------- Bettia.... When you feel like giving up, take it to the limit one more time!! You will SUCEED :-)
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/22, 04:51 PM I think I may need the book "Blondes for dummies" OOps thats an oxymoron right? Lmao
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/24, 02:49 PM Good church for men Lmao!! No, there isn't anything wrong for men to go to these places......just not my Man!!! LOL
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/24, 04:06 PM lol Ravenbeauty, that's a blonde joke. Sorry about that. lol
Ravenbeauty Posts: 3,755 Joined: 2002/09/24	2003/02/24, 06:23 PM okay...lol i guess that is why i didn't get it...lmao. i'll let you in on a little secret, some brunettes are clueless too, if you'd meet my daughter Gabbie, you would know exactly what i am talking about...lmao!~ -------------- Bettia.... When you feel like giving up, take it to the limit one more time!! You will SUCEED :-)
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/25, 07:31 AM lmao. Of course that's not limited to women, I can assure you. lol
INTRUDER Posts: 642 Joined: 2002/06/27	2003/02/25, 10:18 AM ya gotta watch Joe Millionair dude -------------- "Get everthing you want--just make a little change now"
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/25, 11:05 AM dpking - that's ok, I can take blonde jokes....but I am not at all opposed to replying in kind...I can dish it out as well as I can take it! ;) LOL
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/25, 11:10 AM lol, ok I_Am-azon.
Ravenbeauty Posts: 3,755 Joined: 2002/09/24	2003/02/25, 12:32 PM you go girl!!! amazon, great minds think alike! LOL! -------------- Bettia.... When you feel like giving up, take it to the limit one more time!! You will SUCEED :-)
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/25, 01:13 PM Oh great, now they're ganging up on me. Help me out guys. Or am I on my own? lol
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/25, 01:15 PM gettin scared dp? lol ...but Im jus a wee wittle woman :)
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/25, 01:39 PM Wee little woman eh? Regardless of a woman's size, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. lol Been there done that. No thanks. lmao
Ravenbeauty Posts: 3,755 Joined: 2002/09/24	2003/02/25, 03:02 PM LOL!!! he lives with a wee little woman that is...lmao!! and dear, it is DP not BP...LMAO!!!! good idea ravenwolf, best not to get into it. LOL! (just kidding) bring it on boys!! LOL! -------------- Bettia.... When you feel like giving up, take it to the limit one more time!! You will SUCEED :-)
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/25, 03:41 PM I knew I was on my own. Crap! BP. lol
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/25, 08:41 PM BP - hehe "The Blood Pressure king" lol sorry r-wolf, your taking a lot of flack for this one..but I just couldn't resist! Methinks DP has suffered greatly at the hands of mere wittle females...poor fella...too young to be so jaded hehehe Oh, I know I'm gonna get it for that one :) bring it on! LOL
Ravenbeauty Posts: 3,755 Joined: 2002/09/24	2003/02/26, 12:31 AM LMAO!!!! Hey there BP ( I mean DP..LOL) looks like you have a new nick name eh? LOL amazon, too good girl, too good. as far as the men being the superior beings.... we'll see who's superior tonight, Ravenwolf! Too bad, soooo sad you had to get into this one!! He'll give you the sore details tomorrow...LOL! ============ Quoting from I_Am-azon: BP - hehe "The Blood Pressure king" lol sorry r-wolf, your taking a lot of flack for this one..but I just couldn't resist! Methinks DP has suffered greatly at the hands of mere wittle females...poor fella...too young to be so jaded hehehe Oh, I know I'm gonna get it for that one :) bring it on! LOL ============= -------------- Bettia.... When you feel like giving up, take it to the limit one more time!! You will SUCEED :-)
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/26, 07:22 AM Nah, haven't suffered too badly I_Am-azon. A good gentleman doesn't let things get too out of hand. We have to live up to our "superior sex" status (I wonder if Ravenwolf survived the night last night. lol) like Ravenwolf said. <==hoping he directed the ladies back at ravenwolf. lmao
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/26, 10:14 AM I guess being the inferior sex gives me nothing to have to live up to, no image to retain, no expectations to deliver ... hmmmm..now tell me again who is superior!??lol :0) ravenbeauty - I think r-wolf should have to eat some cottage cheese! lol with salsa!!
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/26, 10:18 AM I'm quitting while I'm ahead. That is, if I am really ahead. DOH!
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/26, 10:49 AM Hey Dp - I bet you regret the shoulder pad statement now!! hehe lmao Anyhoo, my comments are all meant in fun - hope I haven't offended anyone! :^O :)
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/26, 10:53 AM Yes, all in fun. Glad you have a good sense of humor. DP, AKA BP
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/26, 10:57 AM Good thing - wouldn't want to increase your BP DP! hehe
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/26, 10:57 AM Indeed.
Ravenbeauty Posts: 3,755 Joined: 2002/09/24	2003/02/26, 11:46 AM it seems ravenwolf has disappeared from this one and hung you out to dry DP. lol! amazon, definitely cottage cheese! didn't get to repay him last night so tonight that will be the perfect punishment.LOL cottage cheese for dinner, cottage cheese for snack, cottage cheese...lol! yes guys and ofcourse us girls, it is all in fun and that's what counts. Have a great day everyone! -------------- Bettia.... When you feel like giving up, take it to the limit one more time!! You will SUCEED :-)
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/26, 12:56 PM I ain't touching that one! If she was perfect, she would have had a beer waiting for you too. lmaoooooo Oh God, I'll pay for that one.
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/26, 01:26 PM You just can't resist hmmm BP? lol
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/26, 01:29 PM BP? ut oh, that seems to be sticking. Thanks Ravenwolf, I owe you one. lol
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/26, 01:34 PM Worse? what did you have in mind? lmao
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/26, 01:37 PM PP! hehe
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/26, 01:40 PM Ahh crap! I'm quiting while I'm behind.
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/02/26, 01:41 PM Yeah it is.
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/26, 01:48 PM Really bad. Incontinence is such a messy thing to deal with! lmao My god, someone put me out of my misery!
I_Am-aZon Posts: 893 Joined: 2003/02/18	2003/02/26, 01:49 PM Oh - you askin fer it r-wolf! lol It's just cause r-beauty's not online that you said that! LOL

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