Group: All Else Lounge

All Else Lounge
Created: 2011/12/31, Members: 42, Messages: 22740

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Why am i shy?

rko
rko
Posts: 102
Joined: 2005/10/30
Australia
2005/11/15, 06:46 AM
Why am i so shy with girls its so annoying at school there are my mates who both have girlfriends and are in like every class together and they get to know eachother alot better that way but i can only see my girlfriend at recess and lunch and i dont know what too say at all? i dont want to drag her from her friends either if i was alone with her i wouldnt be.
gangstershoes
gangstershoes
Posts: 641
Joined: 2005/05/27
United States
2005/11/15, 10:15 AM
You are shy because you need to build your own self confidence. You still care about what others think about you and for that reason you try to blend into the woodwork. Everyone has experienced this one time in their life though, so you really just need to adjust your mental picture of yourself, and involve yourself in things that define you without caring about what others might think about it. good luck and welcome to FT.
Honeydipdream69
Honeydipdream69
Posts: 28
Joined: 2005/11/29
United States
2005/11/30, 01:56 PM
YOU NEED TO STOP CARING ABOUT HOW YOU SOUND WHEN YOU SPEAK OR HOW YOU LOOK TO HER. JUST RELAX AND GO WITH THE FLOW. AND DON'T COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS. BE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU GOT GOING WITH YOUR GIRL.