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Why is it all the great ones have bf's

GOWAR Posts: 361 Joined: 2001/10/24	2003/11/11, 11:52 PM Hey hows it going , for those of you who don't know me, It seems like every beautiful great passionate whole hearted enriched girl I've ever met is just so great, and we have such good coversation and chemistry, but they always already have another frigging boyfriend, It does make me mad , but it does make me get alittle sad , heart stretched if you know what i mean. If and when you care so much about someone else and u just seem to be putting all ur eggs in one basket does that make sense for a highschool student to do??/
GOWAR Posts: 361 Joined: 2001/10/24	2003/11/11, 11:53 PM oops i ment to say it DOESN'T MAKE ME MAD!
Ogun Posts: 559 Joined: 2002/08/11	2003/11/12, 12:30 AM Ok my man, let me clue you in... Chicks not only always have a man/boyfriend, but they always have one on the back burner, just incase. Now, young Jedi, do this; fight fire with fire ;) -------------- --There are no versions of the truth.-- Jeff Goldblum, Jurassic Park II
upatrail Posts: 56 Joined: 2003/10/13	2003/11/12, 07:32 PM I've never met a "beautiful great passionate whole hearted enriched girl"(I probably don't shop at the right places) but I have met a lot like the ones Ogun is talking about. Your young dude, hit the weights and play the game......"If you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with!" -------------- Anything is better than nothing so get off your ass and do something!!!
7707mutt Posts: 7,686 Joined: 2002/06/18	2003/11/13, 12:29 PM Ogun, so it is ok to cheat on the one your with cause they will cheat on you? What kinda of attitude is that? bad advice there IMO -------------- LIFT HEAVY! BECOME STRONG, LIKE BULL!
Ogun Posts: 559 Joined: 2002/08/11	2003/11/16, 04:49 PM Negative my Muttarific friend, When I was married, I didn't even think about cheating. In fact, I've only cheated on a girlfriend once before. Having one on the back burner means having a friend, perhaps one you've been flirtatious with, such that when your girl disappears, you have somebody to talk to, maybe more... Nothing immoral about that, mon ami. But I can appreciate your concern. -------------- --There are no versions of the truth.-- Jeff Goldblum, Jurassic Park II
Jdelts Posts: 1,218 Joined: 2003/10/19	2003/11/16, 06:47 PM When they have a boyfriend, they don't have to play games or seduce you, so you're getting a genuine look at who they really are. This can be attractive but be aware of the red flag a.k.a.BOYFRIEND!! -------------- SHUT UP AND GROW!!!
mtlong33 Posts: 114 Joined: 2003/01/28	2003/11/20, 04:48 PM Yes i agree with Jdelts. The thing you have to remember is, a lot of good relationships come from a strong friendship. Ya never know what might develop if you just stay friends with them and then go from there. If they end up breaking up with their boyfriend, you can make your move, if not, you still have met a nice person and hopefully have a good friend. -------------- Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.
efitts Posts: 56 Joined: 2003/05/27	2003/12/06, 01:39 PM Boyfriends are merely speed bumps in the road of life. They may slow you down from getting what you want, but they can't stop you.
Jdelts Posts: 1,218 Joined: 2003/10/19	2003/12/06, 08:23 PM EFITTS, YOU DOG YOU! LOL -------------- OPINIONS ARE LIKE BUTTHOLES, EVERYONES GOT ONE. NOW, SHUT-UP AND GROW!!!
laneylou Posts: 277 Joined: 2003/10/21	2003/12/08, 02:56 PM hahahah Men Men Men ... My advice ... spend a little more time concentrating on the ladies that aren't taken and give up on the ones that go through 20 boyfriends a year. ;) It'll get you a lot farther. Next question is: If you're after those types of girls ... the ones that have boyfriends on the backburners ... are you really ready for the beautiful great passionate whole hearted enriched girl? Or are you still after the "fling" type thing? Games are so childish. heheh ;)
Taurie Posts: 374 Joined: 2003/10/15	2003/12/08, 03:18 PM lol..Efitts, that's terrible!
GOWAR Posts: 361 Joined: 2001/10/24	2003/12/08, 07:48 PM laneylou , this girl has been going out this guy for about a year, and i her previous 2 are freinds of mine in which she dated them i guess for like 6months-year each. But yes that s what aim for i dont just date or go for a girl that justs wants to have a fling unless thats what i want, this girl is that beautiful great passionate whole hearted enriched girl , but i wising up real quick that i dont think she's gonna break up with him anytime soon since she said she loves him.
NaberAber Posts: 16 Joined: 2003/11/05	2003/12/08, 09:41 PM GOWAR, You don't want to go out with a girl straight out of a relationship anyway. So even if she does break up with her current man, don't go for it. It may be just a bad rebound sort of thing...you just won't know if it is genuine or not. Don't think all the good ones are taken. You need to be more open minded....if "girl A" isn't going for ya, then wait for "girl B"...etc...see where I'm going with this?.....plenty of fish in the sea champ. And first and foremost, you are still in high school...SLOW DOWN fella. You have plenty of time to focus on "long term" chicks when the time is right. Focus on your education, health and future of yourself first. Then the women will come to you...promise :)
laneylou Posts: 277 Joined: 2003/10/21	2003/12/09, 10:50 AM Yeah you don't need to be a rebound guy. ;) Just forget her entirely and look for another nice girl. 'Sides you probably wouldn't even look twice at her if she wasn't pretty. ;) If she was ugly would you even know her? hehehe To be honest I think most guys put too much on just looks. That doesn't mean you're a great or awesome girl. Most of the girls that I know that looked great were horrible to guys. I'd never in a million years tell my boyfriend that he wasn't allowed to talk to other people, or that he had to bring me flowers every date, and buy flowers at the clubs every night, etc etc etc... but I watched my friend do it over and over to every guy she dated for years. She pulled all sorts of stuff with them just because she was pretty on the outside and could get away with it. It was so bad that one day she got in a wreck on the way to work because she was talking on her cell phone, smoking a cigarette and trying to drive at the same time. She rear ended someone or something, I don't remember. Her boyfriend took her AND HER MOM a dozen roses each because they had a bad day? LOL !!!!!! It cracked me up to see a guy google all over any girl like that.
Jdelts Posts: 1,218 Joined: 2003/10/19	2003/12/09, 07:08 PM Have faith GOWAR, there's always someone out there who will want to touch you as equally as you want to touch them. LOL. I know man, it sucks when you can't have someone you want. That's life and it may happen again. Good luck, you got alot of time ahead of you. -------------- WISE MAN SAY: ONLY FOOLS DON\'T LIFT